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SquirtMasterQ 57M
193 posts
4/16/2017 2:35 pm
How many are real and genuine

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SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
4/16/2017 2:36 pm

Is it time to change my profile pic ?


InderioMinx 54F  
19778 posts
4/16/2017 5:22 pm

Some days I wonder about the flirts and hotlists too... as for the serial viewers, it used to be that even running your mouse over a profile logged as a view. I am not sure if that still applies.

Ok, that doesn't really answer the main point of the real v. BDSMBots... with that, who knows?

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


drmgirl622 68F  
25821 posts
4/16/2017 5:28 pm

I believe there are those genuine people out there....., we just have to wade through the quagmire. I honestly think the bloggers here are real..... I've had the pleasure of meeting one and there are those who are dear friends. I think Alt is a true reflection of life..... those who seek nothing but drama and those who actually are looking to make a true connection, are caring and genuine people.


Miner1980Brown1 62F
179 posts
4/16/2017 6:38 pm

I want to say the mouse over the profile is still doing this. As for the hot lists, flirts, fans and whatnot I have not the foggiest idea.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7016 posts
4/16/2017 7:30 pm

The fake scam profiles are dead giveaways. Almost always only one pic usually professionally shot, usually hot listing you, very brief brand new profile, truncated english all wanting to be your immediate slave and all willing to relocate.

About 85-90% of the one-time viewers of my profile are fakes or scams. Repeat viewers usually aren't.


SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
4/16/2017 10:02 pm

    Quoting InderioMinx:
    Some days I wonder about the flirts and hotlists too... as for the serial viewers, it used to be that even running your mouse over a profile logged as a view. I am not sure if that still applies.

    Ok, that doesn't really answer the main point of the real v. BDSMBots... with that, who knows?
Thanks InderioMinx. Being an ex-programmer/IT person I know it would not be hard to program software to mimic members "interested" in one's profile. The opportunity to entice, and I guess it would be mostly the men, a member to purchase more access options so they can see their keen "suitors".


SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
4/16/2017 10:04 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    I believe there are those genuine people out there....., we just have to wade through the quagmire. I honestly think the bloggers here are real..... I've had the pleasure of meeting one and there are those who are dear friends. I think Alt is a true reflection of life..... those who seek nothing but drama and those who actually are looking to make a true connection, are caring and genuine people.
I agree Drmgirl, the bloggers would typically be real and genuine, as is the case with a lot of the people we follow or are followed by.


SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
4/16/2017 10:05 pm

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SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
4/16/2017 10:06 pm

    Quoting Miner1980Brown1:
    I want to say the mouse over the profile is still doing this. As for the hot lists, flirts, fans and whatnot I have not the foggiest idea.
Hmmm got to test that theory out one day......add that onto my bucket list


SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
4/16/2017 10:07 pm

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SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
4/16/2017 10:09 pm

    Quoting Dreamcatcher__:
    The fake scam profiles are dead giveaways. Almost always only one pic usually professionally shot, usually hot listing you, very brief brand new profile, truncated english all wanting to be your immediate slave and all willing to relocate.

    About 85-90% of the one-time viewers of my profile are fakes or scams. Repeat viewers usually aren't.
I agree Dreamcatcher. I always wonder when a young 20 yo wants to be my slave and do things to me and have me do it to her when she is gazillion miles away and have not even chatted to me. I best check that my profile pic has no tattooed "SUCKER" on it.


SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
4/18/2017 5:53 am

    Quoting JeffSlave2KATE:
    Hello to everyone reading this as it is my first post
    I can confirm that you only have to hover on a profile to have it show as viewed in your profile.
    As somebody very new to both the life and the site can I ask what is the benefit of the “Bot” owners in this practice, as it does seem particularly difficult for an older submissive man to find a mistress so am I correct in assuming that there is a financial angle or scram to this.
    Kind regards Jeff
Welcome JeffSlave2Kate! I am honoured that you posted your first one on this very interesting topic. I personally think that the practice and strategy here is to entice and create the impression and sense for the recipient to think that they are sought after....ego stroked always works. Money is definitely important, after all nothing really is for free.


SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
4/18/2017 5:55 am

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SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
4/19/2017 5:39 am

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Thank you ImagrlforU. MY princess speaks highly of you and appreciate your kind words. We are a very happy couple who enjoys each other immensely. I am glad you found your soulmate here, happy endings do exist in here too


SimplyIntricate 53F
1 post
4/22/2017 2:19 pm

My guess?. Most are fake, or mean. Yes, really really mean. Not nice. At least from my perspective. Or they expect complete servitude from the word hello. If yuh diet Cindy then your a b$@$@. But, this is just my guess. terri


SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
4/23/2017 5:09 pm

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SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
4/23/2017 5:12 pm

    Quoting SimplyIntricate:
    My guess?. Most are fake, or mean. Yes, really really mean. Not nice. At least from my perspective. Or they expect complete servitude from the word hello. If yuh diet Cindy then your a b$@$@. But, this is just my guess. terri
Thanks for your comment SimplyIntricate. Sadly there are too many on the site that are pretenders and fakes. And for those who are mean.....I think those that are do not understand the difference between dominating and being dominant.


SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
5/3/2017 2:57 am

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TIme to give up whatever you are smoking as it ain't good ! LOL


_joy_ 53F
2017 posts
5/6/2017 9:19 pm

Lots of reals lots of fakes. Isn't always like that? Often we find out too late. Occasionally we find keepers.


SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
5/8/2017 1:53 am

    Quoting _joy_:
    Lots of reals lots of fakes. Isn't always like that? Often we find out too late. Occasionally we find keepers.
Thank you Joy for your comment. Hope you were one of the ones that found the keepers!



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