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likesmatureones 55M
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5/25/2017 3:47 am
the full court press ( and no I'm not talking about basketball)


I often wonder why men put full court presses on people they are interested in.

A quick example.. had a guy send me a smile on another website..I wrote back saying that I really wasn't looking right now. I have to really focus on myself and getting back into shape for my physical in like two months ..I've been running for like a month now ( doing great by the way)
I still feel like i need to lose like 20lbs ( which is very doable)....
I really didn't have time for anyone in my life right now...( by this I mean I have to concentrate on my diet/exercise/stress levels etc..I don't need the drama.

Plus how do you really date someone that is on a restricted diet/wants to lose lbs of weight if your not... it would be like trying to go out for pizza and then eating celery stalks

He then wrote back and asked if I wanted a buddy to run with...

I said "NOPE!" bad enough learning to run at your own pace..try running with someone worse or better than you
Even worse is driving someplace after work ( and being tired) just to run with someone..I want to run and then just go home.( I live like 10 minutes from work)

But I'm the type that just likes to pop onto sites and see what's going on....like I said I really wasn't looking...just bored at work

So ofcourse this guys saw I was online and started to text me etc...

Which I didn't mind.. it was very generic stuff ..just general talk.. I enjoy chatting/enjoyed the attention and then bammmmm..

so then he wrote "when do you want to get together for coffee etc .?".

When did simple chatting lead to getting together? Like I said it isn't like I am leading him on. I clearly stated that I'm not interested in meeting anyone for like 2 months.
( end of july)

I've always have a few complaints about men...one of them being the pressuring bs..
the other? them not really answering a question one asks or responding to something you wrote..

So part of me just wants to ban this guy and be done with it.....another part of me wants to give him the silent treatment for a day or two before writing that " I said I am not interested in meeting anyone at this time speech".

and it isn't like this guy is prince charming..he basically just matches the basic profile of men that I'm interested in ( age/location/top/single/gay/etc)

likesmatureones 55M

5/25/2017 3:58 am



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