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To Me A SUB COLLAR Is An Erotic Symbol And Part Of Getting Myself Dolled Up In Play Costume For A DOM (His Collar I'm Wearing) ... Since I Merely Dabble In The BDSM Scene- Not Live It- I Regard The Collar As A Sexy Prop That Helps Keep Me In The Correct SUB Mindset During Play. Of Course FUN Disciplinary Things Can Be Done Utilizing The Collar Perhaps With A Leash OR As Part Of Bondage. Although I Have Experiance And Not A Novice To The BDSM Scene- I'm Not Claiming To Be An EXPERT
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I agree with you whole heartedly. It seems to me you're right, a lot of people seem to think they're not submissive without a collar. And it seems to me a lot of D's give them out much to easily, almost as a way to lay claim or something on the person they give the collar to. Now my kajira and I are in a 24/7 D/s relationship, and we are married. And our commitment to one another is there always. With or without a wedding ring or collar. Yes, we have both, in fact I have awarded her My collar two days after our wedding. But before she was collared she was equally comitted to me. As for people who use a collar just for playing. She has two collars. One is a Turian style collar from Ring of Steel, which is her 24/7 collar, much like her wedding ring. She has been given another, leather, collar that she wears during a scene to play with. One that's sturdy enough to tug on, and attach her wrist cuffs with etc. Her play collar matches her wrist and ankle cuffs I think though with the popularity of our lifestyle, it has seen an influx of people who look at it as a game. Something they do in the bedroom. My wife and I are naturally Domminant and submissive. We don't play a role, it is who we are. And on this site, and other sites with it, there is a lot of people claiming this to be their lifestyle. While in fact, they're only playing. And I do believe for a large part, these are the people begging for that collar. Ofcourse begging for a collar in itself is pointless, as it should be earned.
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Begging to be collared is not attractive ! However, if a little new or inexperienced they may well be caught up in it all. Hoping to find their happy ending (not that happy ending ) , hoping to find the 'One' and they feel the collar symbolises all that. Or maybe it means something else to them and they think sod the rules of collaring. Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn
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I've looked at this blog multiple times trying to formulate my true feelings. Would I ever beg for that collar......never. Would I be excited should the opportunity arise....you bet. Sure, it's a symbol but in my mind one that says that this special person and I have found our connection.......found our place. As an alpha sub the collar brings that sense of control that the Domme has over me during play yet also says that my submission has been rewarded in a very overt way.
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