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verytallsub 43M
340 posts
2/5/2017 5:26 pm

Absolutely not, especially ones like the above.


IAmMichaelURKnot 62M
14380 posts
2/5/2017 6:30 pm

I wouldn't think less of you. I wouldn't think more of you. I like you because you are you.

You are intelligent, funny, and genuine. Those qualities make you attractive. No nude photos necessary.

I remember now.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7016 posts
2/5/2017 7:57 pm

I wouldn't think any less of you if you posted tasteful nude photos of yourself here. If, however, the photos were blatantly pornographic, I would consider that they were designed to project a wanton image. I don't know how that would affect my image of you. If it didn't change your basic character, I would like to think it would not change my impression of you.


VirgoGirl78 45F
1272 posts
2/5/2017 8:11 pm

Voted no because it wouldn't change my opinion of you or your blog.
I have nude pics on other site and have been known to post a few in here, but that's because i choose to. Some people like to show pics of themselves, others don't. Like any kink - it's about what each individual likes


bdst1 63M
703 posts
2/6/2017 1:20 am

Depends entirely on context and content. I am not answering about you because I do not know you but about women in general.

If you show something interesting, imaginative and/or erotic it would enhance my opinion because you show the ability to be interesting, imaginative or erotic, which are all positive traits.

Equally, if you are tastefully showing off a good body, or good body parts (breasts, legs, bum etc) then it enhances my potential opinion of the way your body looks. Given most of us can't show face photos then a good body is sometimes a good profile shot. Though some clothing can often add to rather than detract from the impression.

If you show me an open pussy etc - well I know you have one of those, so it doesn't do anything for me one way or the other. To be fair, it does not necessarily put me off either.

If you show a sex act with someone else, then it's a big no. II really can't understand why someone on a dating site would show them dating someone else. Big turn off.

Contact me privately via the PM at the head of my blog page


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
2/6/2017 10:33 am

For me, a woman choosing to post naked pictures doesn't make me think any less of her but maybe thats because i'm a woman !

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


boringbloke60 63M

2/6/2017 2:16 pm

Hello Mary_the_2nd.

Further to your Poll, I vote No, Really Not, some might say all those votes are just to get you to post naked pix but I see my vote as a vote of confidence in you, if you want to keep your nudity in your own private space that is fine with me if you want show all you have than that is your call, Why I show what I show is what it is, do I care what people think? I must do, why would I post pix in the first place. in reality you are the only one who can answer question of weather or not you care what people think of your pix and if you are offended by the comments they may attract. As for my pix, well you are far more attractive than me.

You Do what you are comfortable doing and the ones that can't be reasonably polite can go *** themselves.

David


drmgirl622 68F  
25821 posts
2/7/2017 3:14 pm

I always say "to each his own".....I'm on a sex site so who am I to judge.


IAmMichaelURKnot 62M
14380 posts
2/7/2017 3:51 pm

Mary_the_2nd replies on 2/7/2017 6:32 pm:

Oh I forgot, I am very sorry you have been insulted on my blog.
I have been negligent with bans it seems.

But I prefer to not delete these posts to let the offender stand at the pillory of his words and comment.


Not to worry. As far as I'm concerned he is insignificant.

I remember now.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7016 posts
2/7/2017 6:49 pm

Mary_the_2nd replies on 2/7/2017 6:24 pm:
Thank you, that is exactly what I was wondering. And of course pics enhance my character and if my pics change, what does that say about me, yes.
An image is an image but is based on the person in any case and the person behind the image chooses it so it does say something about the person itself.

You're being too hard on yourself Mary. This is also a fantasy site. You should be able to express your fantasies in nude photos without feeling ashamed or being or feeling judged. Your body is nature's gift to you and to those you wish to share it with. Photographing and displaying it nude doesn't change your character, just as not displaying it doesn't determine your character. One of my dearest friends poses as a fine art model. She is one of the finest, most highly principled people I know.


tenderdom2 70M

2/9/2017 12:09 pm

Before I answer - riddle me this: Why are you posting bikini pics? You are indisputably lovely, but why are you showing off? Are your reasons different from posting naked boobs? If so, how?


badbobbie2007 67T
22 posts
2/13/2017 1:22 am

Personally, I find bodies draped in clothing or skimpy lingerie, or evewn just stockings and heels sans panties far more alluring and sensual than the hottest porn star or best bod hot model that are nude. I know right?: The leaving some mystery or imagination isn't it. At the end one gets his reward with nudity when done...,but I don't look forward to that. There is more freedom if one doesn't worry about stains or teetering on stilettos while pounded,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,or rupturing an appendix or waterbed. But there is so much nudity....skin is bare skin. THE ONLY THING SPECIAL IS WHO IS WEARINGB IT. if THE BODY BIS DRESSED UP, OR DECORATED(SORRY, GLITCHES WILL NOT LET ME CORRECT ANYTHING!). Think of a big nude crowd....and the one average lady dressed in exquieset lingerie and Louboutins....she is somewhat covered but dressed like a goddess awaiting pleasures, decorated like a Festavous tree.....I know for most, the ultimate prep for happy funtime is getting naked. T he universal callquot;Let's get naked". I cannot describe the times it took hours to coordinate and dress up trying to look my best, only to hear those words"let's get naked". Sometimes niot even out the door or finished dressing. Most guys don't care, and a lot of gals. I totally get it. Naked is great. Dressing is just better for me.


gdgrl52 72F

2/13/2017 5:20 am

I was taught that serving others was the trail to being served, as For those that might think I'm cheap, I don't really care what they believe. My one ex BF taught me to embrace myself and how to be secure in what I enjoy. I am and was taught to be SUB kinda young but have almost always had a great time with serving other and allowing myself to be used to attend their needs.
P.S. Hope this helps.


rosaenaluin 65F
10779 posts
2/16/2017 2:10 pm

if you like to put nude pictures on your own profile, who am i to judge?

i am not an exhibitionist or a voyeur.
i have a good body image, i have been a model on a art school, i like nude swimming, sauna. I like my body. I just dont want to share it with everybody on here.
i like the mystery, i dont need or like it, to be all right in my face, but that is very personal.
Do as you please, i wont judge, smiles


rosaenaluin 65F
10779 posts
2/17/2017 5:35 am

If you feel like posting nudes, you must do as you pleased, i dont think any less of you.
i dont like all that meat right in my face, i like the mystery of not knowing and seeing all and all.
Also, your profile foto is rather nice, a beautiful decolleté. not too much "meat" haha.


Switchinneed 38M

2/22/2017 8:28 pm

Personally I don't think less of anyone for doing it. I think to do so would be double standards. I think it should be each to there own if they want to post nude pics then let them you don't have to look at them if you don't want too.

I find it ironic people think its ok for men to post dick picks of their balls being tortured or someone fisting someone but not of someone naked. Bdsm was always about pushing the boundaries and testing and finding new ways of enjoying each other and if people want to post nude pics so be it we shouldn't sit in glass houses throwing stones when they might think some of the pics we post up are revolting.

I have always been one for going with the flow in life and enjoying life and if that's what they like good on them.

People have looked at me in the past when I said I preffered BDSM to swinging and looked down on me they have also looked down on me when I said I fucked a married guy who introduced me to BDSM kind of like I was dirt. The irony was these people where swingers and into swinging.

I have always been up front about my love of bdsm and people haven't liked it even though they knew me and like me as a person they cut me off for my love of BDSM even after explaining what BDSM people really liked and there views on respecting boundaries.

I as a result have taken the view of this is me and if you don't like it tuff luck. I also say I am who I am and everything I do adds to what makes me unique and therefore me change even one thing and you change who I am take me as I am or get to f**K.

Enjoy life as its too short and let each to their own. Embrace our differences and celebrate our similarities and earth would be a better place to live. Its our dislike of what makes each other unique and our intolerance that causes wars and loss of lives.

So lets celebrate our embrace our differences and celebrate our similarities and embrace and life and live it to the full.


PainLoveBeast 62M
43 posts
2/23/2017 4:26 pm

If your aim is to please me, by all means get naked and let me see you in humiliating positions or under torture.
Or say something interesting.
But you decide.

Don't let bigots or hypocrites make up your mind.


bootlckboy39 50M
69 posts
3/24/2017 9:53 am

Posing shows confidence in saying this is me. No, by posing nude you are not cheap at all.



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