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tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
4/8/2017 8:00 am

I'm not sure but for me high maintenance sounds like someone who demands a lot, perhaps loads of time and attention, stuff and could be overall needy? X


brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
4/8/2017 8:32 am

HIGH MAINTENANCE Is Really Men Complaining About Us Ladies And Trannys Requiring A Little Bit Of Effort And Consideration Besides Being Just Sex Objects ... But Don't Get Me Wrong Because I Absolutely Adore Being A Horny Guy's SEX OBJECT


Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
4/8/2017 8:44 am

Emotionally needy, clingy, requiring frequent tokens of affection etc, but over and above what one might expect in a "normal" relationship. It is (probably) an undesirable facet in a partner. It all depends on what one is looking for.


brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
4/8/2017 9:41 am

Mixztrixz - Very Well Said For Sure! And To Clarify In My Case- I'm Easy Going And Laid Back- Not High Maintenance In That Regard- Just Fanatical About My Appearance. THANK YOU Soooo Much For The Sweet Compliment I Appreciate...!!!


camperdude_69 63M
599 posts
4/8/2017 11:11 am

depends on the person


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
4/8/2017 12:51 pm

    Quoting tinkerfun:
    I'm not sure but for me high maintenance sounds like someone who demands a lot, perhaps loads of time and attention, stuff and could be overall needy? X
As usual, Princess Tink has nailed it... It's someone who's more damn trouble than she's worth.


verytallsub 43M
375 posts
4/8/2017 3:21 pm

Awkwardly it's a relative as the person claiming they are 'high maintenance'. It might mean in financial terms, or what they expect socially, etc, etc.


alt5250 61M
1283 posts
4/8/2017 3:53 pm

Interesting question... others have nailed this already but I am sure for many it is a variable set of goal posts that simply changes depending on personal opinions.


VovimBaghie2030 55M  
261 posts
4/8/2017 5:59 pm

It's been my experience that most women are greedy, and materialistic by nature. So, I think that the term "high maintenance" is often just a euphemism for gold digger.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
4/9/2017 1:43 am

This always get me confused~~~~ to me it is in the category of "playing hard to get" = vanilla terms, wich dont apply to me...
If you like a man, if you want to let that known to that man, why play? hard to get? vanilla dating games....
The same with high maintenace......Now adays most wemen can buy anything they fancy.... so?
I dont do such games.. when i feel that special dominant energy.... i start a conversation... see what happens... if he picks up on it....understands/ "feels" my energy... ? who knows.....?


femdomsrule 67M
39 posts
4/9/2017 1:53 am

High maintenance = requiring a lot of time, attention, effort and $ to keep Her happy.

Of course, these are traits male slaves love their Mistresses to have.



wannabe slave.


VovimBaghie2030 55M  
261 posts
4/9/2017 5:24 pm

    Quoting Tinyppsph:
    It is unfortunate this was your experience. Are you saying this was your experience with women you dated or women in general? Very big difference. If it is just women you have dated that's really an issue you need to look within yourself for. For some reason you pursued materialistic women. A lot of guys want the barbie type but only in a superficial way. Its a common flaw with guys I think. Fall in love with the dolled up look before the person and when they find out how much money and time goes into attaining that image, they get frustrated. Not assuming you are one of those guys, just a hypothetical. I don't know anything about you, just the statement at hand.

    If you are implying Women in general are materialistic and greedy, well not sure where you live but thats's not my experience. Interests and intentions are wide and varied with both men and women. Some people are materialistic but don't see it as a gender thing. It's a human thing. I don't have anything against materialism. Personally money and possessions do not mean that much, just worldly necessity. They mean nothing in the end..

    I don't know, I've lived in Usa and abroad and done a fair amount of traveling. People are pretty much same everywhere. I just have not personally encountered all thiis greed on the part of females. Maybe because I am not atteacted to that lifestyle so those types of people are rarely in my circle.
Female nature is pretty much the same every where.


celtdragn 53F
283 posts
4/10/2017 4:50 am

to me having one say another is high maintenance, it is generally a negative connotation. They require excessive attention, time, endless grooming, spending of money etc. Which generally to me is an indication of selfish, self centered individuals who are more about themselves then their owner or their sub depending on the case as there are high maintenance Masters/Mistresses as there are subs.

Just my humble thoughts.



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