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twosharp2 79M
767 posts
2/12/2017 12:22 pm

I despise condoms, but I have complete, recent test results for all STDs. She must have test results also or no play with me.


brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
2/12/2017 12:25 pm

No Guys Don't Like Condoms- So It Falls To Us Gals To Make Sure We Are Careful.... Actually The ONLY Safe Sex Is Having No Sex- But We Are ONLY Human So Most Of Us Brave The Waters...


drmgirl622 68F  
25881 posts
2/12/2017 12:58 pm

your girlfriend is a very smart woman.......good for her !


urbucketlist 67M

2/12/2017 1:15 pm

I have no problem wearing condoms. Seems to be common sense.


Hot_Buns 62M
90 posts
2/12/2017 2:48 pm

You made the point about test results. They're virtually worthless unless the
tested person has completed all the tests, come back squeaky clean, AND
abstained from any sex before having sex with you. So when someone tells
you they "tested clean," tell them you never go out in the rain without a raincoat.

Condom technology has come a long way and some are pretty good. I ask the
women the brand she prefers because I know that if I'm attracted to her, no
condom on this planet will prevent me from exploding inside her.


verytallsub 43M
375 posts
2/12/2017 3:00 pm

Men putting their pleasure before the woman's concerns. I hope your friend tells them where to go.


Zvengali 106M
19 posts
2/12/2017 6:31 pm

First let me say this...I wear condoms....I dont like them, I hate them, anyone who says its the same with one on is lying his ass off.... having said that... I just wonder how many guys here that have answered your question, and WOULD NEVER...have sex without one....if that hot hot girl they just met asked them to have sex and no condom conversation ever spoken....would they say no to her....Of course no one will ever say they would...but I can tell you....men are men...and no one...no one is gonna say not to a girl that is a 10.....It is life, we are men.....

........... Zvengali


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
2/12/2017 9:21 pm

Only suggestion I would add is finding a way to make this known before you are at the moment of decision.. So, perhaps your friend finds a way to put the rules in her profile, .. Guys, likely, will still try to talk her out of it, but it might fend off a few from wasting her time..


VirgoGirl78 45F
1272 posts
2/13/2017 3:22 am

I'm first to admit I have done some stupid things when it comes to this topic and not always used condoms. For my own sense of ease, I do get tested on a regular basis.

I have certainly been with men that insisted on using them and in the case of my ex Daddy, the discussion was not even needed as before we had intercourse the first time he was the one to grab a condom and put it on right away. One time when we hadn't seen each other in several months and he hadn't brought any with him he simply said "have you got a condom?" and a grabbed one from the drawer next to us.

My current Daddy is happy for me to play with others that I may choose to, with the main condition being that I must use condoms.

I had heard about the rise is STD rates and especially among people in their 40's+ as they re-enter the dating world and don't know how to negotiate the use of condoms. Many figure that the pill etc is not needed as there's no chance of pregnancy but they do seem to forget about STD's.


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
2/13/2017 10:42 am

Your comment about guys saying "I love you" is spot on.. Reminds of the scene in "Ground Hog Day" when "Phil" first tells "Rita" that he loves her.. The hard part about saying "I love you" is trying NOT to say it when it will devalue the meaning.. Once you've used it that way, it will never again have the full value it should..


SquirtMasterQ 57M
837 posts
2/16/2017 2:14 am

I agree my princess ...you never experienced that problem at all nudge nudge wink wink



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