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CountryGent54 69M

5/26/2017 2:30 pm

I feel you left one out. Some are just naturally ass holes.
There is another that is brought on by some women on this site. The women that sees a man as to weak to be the aggressive dominant man they are seeking if he approaches them in a friendly manner.
Some men read a profile stating she wants to be abuse, humiliated and called names so the man starts out to show his aggressiveness right away.
Unfortunately he does not use common sense and treats all women the same if they are on a site like this where everyone is here because they have kinky desires that they want to satisfy.
I for one approach a woman here or any where else with respect that any woman kinky or vanilla deserves.
Finding out what that woman really wants comes for me talking to or meeting that woman. I prefer meeting in person so that I can read her actions and she mine.


drmgirl622 68F  
26003 posts
5/26/2017 2:35 pm

I agree wholeheartedly......I, for one, enjoy a good debate. A debate should be an exchange of ideas, a voicing of ones point of view. Unfortunately, it seems more and more prevalent that debates are just an excuse for ridicule and hate. We must try and be more civil to each other, listen and understand that we are individuals and have a right to express our thoughts without fear of retribution.


benoite 104F
6238 posts
5/26/2017 3:00 pm

I admit that I often doubt a person's best intentions.
Like CountryGent54 said:
Some are just naturally ass holes.
Life taught me he is right.
B


Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power. - Oscar Wilde


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7020 posts
5/26/2017 3:22 pm

The second of The Four Agreements (Don Miguel Ruiz) is it's not all about you. The first is Be Impeccable with your word. When I manage to follow the first, I usually manage to avoid having to deal with the second. Sometimes I'm just not up to the challenge... and sometimes I have to admit that just isn't good enough.

When I feel provoked, I try to avoid answering immediately when possible, to cool down. If I can't honestly reply calmly, I try to avoid replying at all... when I'm sufficiently under control to remember the Four Agreements.

When I'm convinced I'm dealing with a moron, and ignoring him isn't going to make him stop or solve the problem, I just rake the miscreant with suppressive fire and leave his position in flames. I'm highly skilled at it. Some people just need to learn not to fuck with me.


slaveforyou365 63M  
4490 posts
5/26/2017 4:33 pm



Slave rick


brandygirasol 54T
9413 posts
5/27/2017 6:07 am

Sometimes Messages Can Be Missunderstood And Not READ The Way The Sender Meant It To Be- I've Made That Mistake Myself! Just Saying...


aliljaded 53F
8872 posts
6/1/2017 8:56 am

I've also been thinking about this for a while and I've come to the conclusion that everyone is entitled to their opinion. The other day I felt I was being attacked for something I posted and I didn't want to hash it out on the board. I calmly messaged the person I thought I offended and we had an intelligent conversation and the post remained on my board. I really feel that there are some lovely people here on this site, and everyone is entitled to their own point of view, but when people start getting nasty, I have no patience or tolerance for that kind of behavior. I have yet to yank a post from my board.I suppose I always have to keep in mind where it's coming from. I hope I wasn't totally out of the realm of the topic you were discussing.
Thanks for bringing it up.
As Always,
Warm Regards,
M.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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