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Musings & Interludes of a Dom

Thoughts and observations based on vivid experiences around the globe and throughout the years.

Too Many Focus on Only One Type of Submission
Posted:Nov 7, 2020 3:14 pm
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2020 8:34 pm
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One of the things one notices after careful observation is how the focus is way too often on the physical aspects of the submission whereas the mental and emotional are neglected. Even some who consider themselves lifestyle Doms/Dommes often consider 'kneel bitch' as the height of Domination.
Of course I have nothing against the physical but that is too easy. If I wanted a lay or someone to kneel I could have it within an hour.
The real art of Domination is finding what makes the person tick and to delve deeper and deeper within it. That is when the real exploration starts, the pushing of boundaries mentally and emotionally. The sense of excitement tinged with fear the submissive has knowing she is losing any power and say by the moment. At that point she starts to realize she has truly been touched and may never be the same again.
It is not easy for people to give into such, their existence screams against it, but if they were happy with their current existence and day to day they probably would not be here. They have a void in their life a hole, and its all of those I wish to fill.
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