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SquirtMasterQ 51M
139 posts
4/16/2017 2:35 pm
How many are real and genuine

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SquirtMasterQ 51M
381 posts
4/16/2017 2:36 pm

Is it time to change my profile pic ?


InderioMinx 47F  
14682 posts
4/16/2017 5:22 pm

Some days I wonder about the flirts and hotlists too... as for the serial viewers, it used to be that even running your mouse over a profile logged as a view. I am not sure if that still applies.

Ok, that doesn't really answer the main point of the real v. BDSMBots... with that, who knows?

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


drmgirl622 61F  
4003 posts
4/16/2017 5:28 pm

I believe there are those genuine people out there....., we just have to wade through the quagmire. I honestly think the bloggers here are real..... I've had the pleasure of meeting one and there are those who are dear friends. I think Alt is a true reflection of life..... those who seek nothing but drama and those who actually are looking to make a true connection, are caring and genuine people.


softlyerotic 47F  
108 posts
4/16/2017 6:17 pm

    Quoting InderioMinx:
    Some days I wonder about the flirts and hotlists too... as for the serial viewers, it used to be that even running your mouse over a profile logged as a view. I am not sure if that still applies.

    Ok, that doesn't really answer the main point of the real v. BDSMBots... with that, who knows?
As a new member on the site, it reports I've viewed 164 profiles. Lmao...Most of the profiles I've viewed have been bloggers to see what area of the country/world they live. I'm guessing I've viewed 30 profiles, so I think there is some misreporting still going on.


softlyerotic 47F  
108 posts
4/16/2017 6:18 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    I believe there are those genuine people out there....., we just have to wade through the quagmire. I honestly think the bloggers here are real..... I've had the pleasure of meeting one and there are those who are dear friends. I think Alt is a true reflection of life..... those who seek nothing but drama and those who actually are looking to make a true connection, are caring and genuine people.
<<What drmgirl said!!!!


Miner1980Brown1 55F  
3 posts
4/16/2017 6:38 pm

I want to say the mouse over the profile is still doing this. As for the hot lists, flirts, fans and whatnot I have not the foggiest idea.


nippleplayBBW 50F  
3 posts
4/16/2017 6:51 pm

I am always surprised by the number of males who ask if I am real or seem surprised I may have answered their IM. It would seem that the number of men far out weigh the number of women on this site.


Dreamcatcher__ 80M  
3897 posts
4/16/2017 7:30 pm

The fake scam profiles are dead giveaways. Almost always only one pic usually professionally shot, usually hot listing you, very brief brand new profile, truncated english all wanting to be your immediate slave and all willing to relocate.

About 85-90% of the one-time viewers of my profile are fakes or scams. Repeat viewers usually aren't.


SquirtMasterQ 51M
381 posts
4/16/2017 10:02 pm

    Quoting InderioMinx:
    Some days I wonder about the flirts and hotlists too... as for the serial viewers, it used to be that even running your mouse over a profile logged as a view. I am not sure if that still applies.

    Ok, that doesn't really answer the main point of the real v. BDSMBots... with that, who knows?
Thanks InderioMinx. Being an ex-programmer/IT person I know it would not be hard to program software to mimic members "interested" in one's profile. The opportunity to entice, and I guess it would be mostly the men, a member to purchase more access options so they can see their keen "suitors".


SquirtMasterQ 51M
381 posts
4/16/2017 10:04 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    I believe there are those genuine people out there....., we just have to wade through the quagmire. I honestly think the bloggers here are real..... I've had the pleasure of meeting one and there are those who are dear friends. I think Alt is a true reflection of life..... those who seek nothing but drama and those who actually are looking to make a true connection, are caring and genuine people.
I agree Drmgirl, the bloggers would typically be real and genuine, as is the case with a lot of the people we follow or are followed by.


SquirtMasterQ 51M
381 posts
4/16/2017 10:05 pm

    Quoting softlyerotic:
    As a new member on the site, it reports I've viewed 164 profiles. Lmao...Most of the profiles I've viewed have been bloggers to see what area of the country/world they live. I'm guessing I've viewed 30 profiles, so I think there is some misreporting still going on.
Welcome new member! Thank you for taking the time to read and comment on my blog softlyerotic.


SquirtMasterQ 51M
381 posts
4/16/2017 10:06 pm

    Quoting Miner1980Brown1:
    I want to say the mouse over the profile is still doing this. As for the hot lists, flirts, fans and whatnot I have not the foggiest idea.
Hmmm got to test that theory out one day......add that onto my bucket list


SquirtMasterQ 51M
381 posts
4/16/2017 10:07 pm

    Quoting nippleplayBBW:
    I am always surprised by the number of males who ask if I am real or seem surprised I may have answered their IM. It would seem that the number of men far out weigh the number of women on this site.
I think on most adult sites men far outweigh the women. Glad you are real nippleplayBBW. Thanks for commenting on my blog.


SquirtMasterQ 51M
381 posts
4/16/2017 10:09 pm

    Quoting Dreamcatcher__:
    The fake scam profiles are dead giveaways. Almost always only one pic usually professionally shot, usually hot listing you, very brief brand new profile, truncated english all wanting to be your immediate slave and all willing to relocate.

    About 85-90% of the one-time viewers of my profile are fakes or scams. Repeat viewers usually aren't.
I agree Dreamcatcher. I always wonder when a young 20 yo wants to be my slave and do things to me and have me do it to her when she is gazillion miles away and have not even chatted to me. I best check that my profile pic has no tattooed "SUCKER" on it.


JeffSlave2KATE 58M
1 post
4/17/2017 12:05 am

Hello to everyone reading this as it is my first post
I can confirm that you only have to hover on a profile to have it show as viewed in your profile.
As somebody very new to both the life and the site can I ask what is the benefit of the “Bot” owners in this practice, as it does seem particularly difficult for an older submissive man to find a mistress so am I correct in assuming that there is a financial angle or scram to this.
Kind regards Jeff


taximan6752 61M  
1018 posts
4/17/2017 4:31 am

only if they are under you smiling up at you is it real. all others are either a potential.


SquirtMasterQ 51M
381 posts
4/18/2017 5:53 am

    Quoting JeffSlave2KATE:
    Hello to everyone reading this as it is my first post
    I can confirm that you only have to hover on a profile to have it show as viewed in your profile.
    As somebody very new to both the life and the site can I ask what is the benefit of the “Bot” owners in this practice, as it does seem particularly difficult for an older submissive man to find a mistress so am I correct in assuming that there is a financial angle or scram to this.
    Kind regards Jeff
Welcome JeffSlave2Kate! I am honoured that you posted your first one on this very interesting topic. I personally think that the practice and strategy here is to entice and create the impression and sense for the recipient to think that they are sought after....ego stroked always works. Money is definitely important, after all nothing really is for free.


SquirtMasterQ 51M
381 posts
4/18/2017 5:55 am

    Quoting taximan6752:
    only if they are under you smiling up at you is it real. all others are either a potential.
Thanks Taximan. By your account, my sub_nouveau is seriously REAL and definitely YUMMY!


sub_nouveau 47F  
2561 posts
4/18/2017 4:00 pm

    Quoting SquirtMasterQ:
    Thanks Taximan. By your account, my sub_nouveau is seriously REAL and definitely YUMMY!
Have I mentioned how incredibly awesome YOU are, My Sir? I adore YOU!!!

Let's talk. It's how we learn about yesterday and comprehend today.


imagrlforU 35F  
858 posts
4/18/2017 6:20 pm

i am a confessed sub_nouveau fan. its so wonderful to find a happy couple like you two here on Alt, as things have changed so much since my original time here from 2004-2009.

i am one of the lucky ones who have found my soulmate here. i wish you both all the happiness that my Mistress and i expect to have in our future together.

~ karen~

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment..... Ralph Waldo Emerson


SquirtMasterQ 51M
381 posts
4/19/2017 5:39 am

    Quoting imagrlforU:
    i am a confessed sub_nouveau fan. its so wonderful to find a happy couple like you two here on Alt, as things have changed so much since my original time here from 2004-2009.

    i am one of the lucky ones who have found my soulmate here. i wish you both all the happiness that my Mistress and i expect to have in our future together.

    ~ karen~
Thank you ImagrlforU. MY princess speaks highly of you and appreciate your kind words. We are a very happy couple who enjoys each other immensely. I am glad you found your soulmate here, happy endings do exist in here too


SimplyIntricate 46F  
1 post
4/22/2017 2:19 pm

My guess?. Most are fake, or mean. Yes, really really mean. Not nice. At least from my perspective. Or they expect complete servitude from the word hello. If yuh diet Cindy then your a b$@$@. But, this is just my guess. terri


SquirtMasterQ 51M
381 posts
4/23/2017 5:09 pm

    Quoting sub_nouveau:
    Have I mentioned how incredibly awesome YOU are, My Sir? I adore YOU!!!
And I love you my awesome princess x xx


SquirtMasterQ 51M
381 posts
4/23/2017 5:12 pm

    Quoting SimplyIntricate:
    My guess?. Most are fake, or mean. Yes, really really mean. Not nice. At least from my perspective. Or they expect complete servitude from the word hello. If yuh diet Cindy then your a b$@$@. But, this is just my guess. terri
Thanks for your comment SimplyIntricate. Sadly there are too many on the site that are pretenders and fakes. And for those who are mean.....I think those that are do not understand the difference between dominating and being dominant.



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