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sex_demon96 43 M
5 Articles
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Ex's new bf rubbing it in.   12/7/2006

So I guess this is sort of a question for the ladies, maybe even the guys to.
I've recently had a very nasty breakup with a girlfriend of a year or so. Things ended very bitterly. It's now a couple weeks later. We haven't spoken and we seem to have gotten on with our lives. I now get text messages from my ex-girlfriends new bf bragging how he's banging my ex gf in an attempt to ...


1 Comments, 364 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
SW_CPL2 47 C
2 Articles
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Looking for my first master   11/21/2006

Why I get E mails from all men asked me to meet them without panty .I am not that type
why they did not ask to wear sexy one black or white what they like ? do you have the felling that If I do not wear this I will not be hot , I am exicted already from the Idea that I get an E mail from you instruct me to shave and be ready for your ....
any Idea what is the best to wear ...


3 Comments, 267 Views, 14 Votes ,4.42 Score
TwistedInstinct 63 M
11 Articles
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Timid touch ... street training young master   11/20/2006

Timid Touch
Your confidence is what realy does it , your inner self I have said many times is the most important aspect . Not your looks not the bait you own ( your car , house job etc) the bait does a great job attracting the girls but will not keep them if the inner you is not the male herr inner self realy needs . And girls need a confident male , over and over that aspect is ...


1 Comments, 78 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
Nephew2005 37 M
7 Articles
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And the best way to woo women is...   11/3/2006

Forget expensive presents or costly jewelry. Wining and dining is the best way for men to woo women. <br> Researchers at Imperial College London developed a mathematical formula and modeled courtship as a sequential game to find the best way to impress the ladies. <br> Their results show that offering an expensive present signals the man's serious intentions but he must be ...


2 Comments, 220 Views, 15 Votes ,3.44 Score
sexxyplaytyme 44 F
1 Article
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MEETING THE PEOPLE YOU WANNA MEET   9/13/2006

I HATE MOVING TO A NEW TOWN, THERE ARE NEVER ANY PEOPLE FUN TO MEET. EVERYONE SAYS THEY ARE REAL BUT VERY FEW PEOPLE SHOW THEY ARE. I AM A WHITE FEMALE AND MOVED TO PALM SPRINGS ALMOST A YEAR AGO. I LIKE MY BLACK MEN AND IT SEEMS THEY ARE SCARCE HERE. I LOVE MEETING WOMEN TO BE FRIENDS WITH OR TO HAVE SEX WITH. I AM A HAPPY PERSON AND WISH EVERYONE WOULD STOP PLAYING THESE GAMES. LETS ALL ...


2 Comments, 234 Views, 36 Votes ,2.89 Score
devotenixxe 49 F
1 Article
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Doctors need   9/13/2006

I seek, men who like to be a doctor, who like the sam things, which i need. Its very diffucult to find dominant ore sadistic men, who love medical also.


4 Comments, 560 Views, 29 Votes ,4.44 Score
S_she_S 54 F
36 Articles
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Re: "I want to be in Control!"   9/7/2006

If you want to be in control, first you must have control over yourself. As the recipient of one of your name calling smarmy commented letters after being honestly and upfront told that things would not click, you replied with a barrage of insulting comments. He that cannot control himself and was previously told under no uncertain terms not to waste my time and theirs, should perhaps ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 11 Votes ,6.72 Score
pinkpanties4u 68 T
1 Article
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Why can,t I find a sexual partner?   9/7/2006

I have been in Phoenix all of my sexual days, and have been sexually addicted since before I new about G spot, or anal sex.When I firt remember my sex antics were at the dinner table I would prop my fore arms flat on the table were I could slitly liuft my bottom ever so slightly off the chair.Once at this poinnt I would slowly rythymaticaly sway my thighs, round and round then side to side. ...


0 Comments, 551 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
rheist1 69 M
1 Article
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fat gals   9/5/2006

I have always found that rubenesque(sic) ladies to be more attractive and able tofil the submissive role .However they also tend to be very shy and few have contaced me .Those that have I now use as references.


2 Comments, 131 Views, 103 Votes ,7.11 Score
foxxy22 46 F
2 Articles
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Master/Slave   9/5/2006

Why is it that men only want a to abuse their submissive women? Bearing in mind that I've never been in a master/ slave relationship, but a few of my friends have been and all of my knowledge comes from their experiences. When women are the dominants the relationship it seems that more of the abuse is consentual and the public abuse is kept at a minimum. Maybe it's comes from the ...


2 Comments, 184 Views, 27 Votes ,2.61 Score
SweetThing34 54 F
22 Articles
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Re: Nude Photos   9/5/2006

Ok I have to agree with her right there. I mean I love a good cock shot however if you have nothing other than that to offer in the way of mystery why bother?

It makes me wonder if the cock shot is your only way of possibly getting a hit on alt. NOW I am NOT unreasonable I have talked to many many men that sit with empty mailboxes or porn crap that fills them, perhaps ...


6 Comments, 212 Views, 88 Votes ,6.78 Score
Sirus20x6 40 M
2 Articles
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Where are the scar fetishists?   8/4/2006

I am a 21 year old who has been in a few D/S relationships as a Dom after moving away from vanilla, and I have to wonder where all the scar fetishists are? Well besides Germany and Cali. You would think that me being so close to Chicago I could find a good female sub/slave or maybe even a switch who wasn't so put off by them.


1 Comments, 508 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
purgatory666 53 C
7 Articles
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help wanted! and submisives!   7/28/2006

i am in purgatory and need help from the females and male Submissives i am a 35 year old male and find my self lacing in many area's ( i guess I'm to vanilla with as much sex appeal as a candy , my wife loves this lifestyle and needs both mental stimulation and friendship, playmates .Someone see is proud to be seen with at the bdsm clubs some one to feel the needs i can not. so feel ...


1 Comments, 33 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
TawneeKitaen 43 T
16 Articles
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Pumped to Ecstacy   7/16/2006

Oh goodness!!! I just found out recently this month how much sexual stamina my new man, Jeff, has in him. On our second date, he brought me some sexy black silk and lace undies and made me strip off my red satin minidress dress & put on a black satin teddy and garter belt with them. The black seamed stockings he also provided were held taught against my shapely, firm legs by the garters. I ...


3 Comments, 647 Views, 35 Votes ,7.47 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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Individuals Who Date Others Who Don't Value Them   7/6/2006

We are all ultimately in charge of how we allow another individual to treat us. If we don't set limits and expect others to honor our boundaries some won't. Relationship patterns also come into play here. If during our cognitive shaping years we live in an enviornment where we are cared for and nurtured we grow up with healthy self esteem and expect others to treat us well. If we grow up ...


3 Comments, 570 Views, 90 Votes ,6.65 Score
dom153 75 M
3 Articles
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meeting place   6/24/2006

When ever I have met folk from alt I have always tried to meet in a safe place but they dont seem to worry where they meet folk never seem to be put off by meeting in car parks why so trusting?


1 Comments, 90 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
RaineUK1 69 F
1 Article
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How is dating done in the BDSM World?   6/22/2006

I consider myself a slave by nature. I havent had much experience in BDSM as I seem to only attract wannabes etc. I also do not have much experience dating even in the vanilla world. I have been a silver member thinking that it would be a better way to weed out the wannabes but it really isnt. I may not have a lot of experience but my gut tells me that one doesnt just jump into bed or into ...


1 Comments, 219 Views, 68 Votes ,8.51 Score
willing-widow 70 F
1 Article
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do Men want a slut on the first meeting ?   6/19/2006

hello, <br> i am willing-widow and You can look at me here i am always wondering how to behave and dress the first timei am going out with a man <br> sexy and i am considered a slut conservative and i am considered like an old woman <br> what do You expect from me ? <br> sarah


5 Comments, 317 Views, 230 Votes ,3.26 Score
sweetheart77 49 F
9 Articles
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Family meetings with Doms   6/18/2006

i have a question about introducing ones Master to meet their family. my Master is such a wonderful loving Man, what if i call Him Master in front of them? Is this a common problem for subs? How do O/others deal with it?


4 Comments, 421 Views, 30 Votes ,3.24 Score
Masterx1948 76 M
1 Article
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Please !   6/18/2006

Hi! <br> I beg all of you who receive mail to answer it, even though you not interesting in further contact. Then we got an confirmation that you received the mail. I will also inform you that I still seeking a female slave, a slave by heart. <br> Thanks Masterx1948


1 Comments, 304 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
BrattyGRITSgal23 41 F
1 Article
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Never enough Discipline   6/18/2006

I set out of the door for dinner with my date that I have yet to meet in person. I have on my kinky red shoes and pants and low cut shirt. Of course I know he is into rope bondage and spanking. And of course he most certaintly knows that I am a stubborn bratty sub. There will be no skirt the first time, he's gonna have to guess how I look and feel under those pants. We meet and kiss and ...


8 Comments, 635 Views, 21 Votes ,3.13 Score
NoCyberDom 58 M
1 Article
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Re: Finding REAL love along with lustful passions.   5/31/2006

In short, I was once lucky enough to have found that perfect love but curcumstances pulled us apart. 17 years later, I contacted her and found that at the exact day and time I felt compelled to find out whatever happned to her and looked up her phone number (I finally called about 3 days later), she had broken out a box with every letter I had ever written her and told her husband about the ...


2 Comments, 118 Views, 26 Votes ,6.05 Score
sirhalley 65 M
2 Articles
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Can a dream become true   4/3/2006

Well I am trying to date some asian woman or shemale cause my dream is own a collared asian slave but seems that also if I am pone to recive as guest or I can wait longer periods before ask her to travel to Italy nobody is interested.... <br> can it be a real culture difference or is juts a wrong approach? I wish have some suggestion thank's to all of you especially to who have ...


1 Comments, 194 Views, 22 Votes ,0.24 Score
stephany1963 60 F
7 Articles
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first meeting   1/19/2006

Ever wonder what goes though a transsexuals mind when they end up getting a date from this site? Well, let me tell ya! First, your mind starts thinking "oh shit, what am I going to wear", then the closer to the meeting time, it doesn't really matter what you have closen because you know it will be wrong. You wonder what will happen or how far will you go on the 1st meeting, will you submit ...


0 Comments, 190 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
pussylovelace 51 T
1 Article
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The joys of a night in Bristol   12/12/2005

On a recent business trip to Bristol (UK), I took along a bag full of my tartiest clothes, ready for a dressing-up session in my hotel room. Soon, i was preening and prancing in front of the full-length mirror in my strappy, 4-inch-heeled sandals; nude, shiny tights; purple, a-line, pvc mini-skirt; a clingy, black top and black & pink, lacy scanties with pert little falsey boobs. I ...


1 Comments, 64 Views, 32 Votes ,5.87 Score
Razorbldromance 37 F
1 Article
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New to the site   12/1/2005

I, sometimes, find dating to be pointless. I am old fashioned in the sense that I wouldn't have "a friend with benefits", yet I hate the title that is added to dating. It only seems to add more complications to a relationship. <br> I know that I could easily have a "Fuck buddy", but I'm not exactly ready to go into that, if ever. I like to know the person and have equal respect ...


7 Comments, 412 Views, 38 Votes ,3.24 Score
willingandable8 55 M
10 Articles
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stood up   11/26/2005

being stood up is a terrible thing you think its no big deal but all your doing is fucking yourself out of fun time and when you say your coming over and gonna call and never do its like telling me im getting some and lieing to me


0 Comments, 95 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
femmeplay101 42 T
1 Article
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tv looking for a girlfriend/playmate   10/26/2005

are there any girls interested in fooling around with a cute tv?


2 Comments, 99 Views, 23 Votes ,3.71 Score
TiggerWMA47 65 M
1 Article
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Transgender Dating.   9/28/2005

I'm out of the Fresno California area and I have no Idea of where to find a transgender friend to have fun with in the local area of central ca. Any advise would be great.


1 Comments, 278 Views, 1 Votes
LIVEDREAM22 51 C
1 Article
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Making contact with swingers like Us!!!   7/29/2005

Hello there, this is LIVEDREAM22 we would love to make conact with those of you out there that share the same interests that we do. We are Semi-new too this and sure would like some help. Swing by our profile and see what you think people. Hope to hear from you all soon. <br> Keep it hot and erotic people, L and T


1 Comments, 39 Views, 27 Votes ,2.71 Score