Somewhere exists that woman, who knows what she wants, and is not afraid to take it. She likes to lock a subbie up just enough to keep him helpless, but at her control. Perhaps a submissive woman who wants to care for her dominant / switch too.. and learn together.
Or perhaps a boy for her whims, and to attempt to please her. My ultimate dream would be to find that long-term relationship, and perhaps eventual partnership, where we both know whom is in control. It would be an honor to find my mate in someone who enjoys being in control of her man. I have been married to a vanilla woman in the past, and I am looking to find a mate with someone who wants to OWN her man.
6'4 well built, and well endowed... orally talented and eager learn and to play... I am a very compliant submissive with a love to be inescapably bound, collared, and leashed... and forced servitude... until it is done right... (grin).
I have a love for finding myself inescapably bound... exposed, and ready to be used. Thinking... "Maybe this was NOT such a good idea?"
I am fascinated by the dynamics that are part of the willful exchange of control and power. It is so amazing to be able to hand over control of oneself for a period of time, and to expand the level of trust and exploration that grows in a good BDSM experience. I love that lock of the collar/restraints, and the tug on the leash... it puts a guy in his place in a hurry. It is natural for a submissive to want to please his dominant, and that is what I strive for. Finding that connection where we can be best friends and yet with a look she can let me know who is in charge... makes me melt.
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My Ideal Person:
I have recently because of my interest in being a sub, have had the mindset that I may make a pretty good dom too So I am considering finding a switching or dom type relationship too... Is my little subbie out there too? I am a 40 yr. old M, looking for a woman/couple who likes to walk on the wild side a little. I am experienced, clean, safe, sane (most of the time)... and very sub. I will try interim play, but eventually, I am looking to be owned by a woman, and to become a team, a couple, and a partner. Sometimes, it is important to just know that your mate holds the keys.
Where is that insatiable woman... that woman who thinks she can outlast me... it is a challenge I may be up to
I have extensive experience as a submissive, but am always wanting to explore, expand, and grow in my experiences and learning from those who share my likes, and interests.
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