True submission begins and ends in the mind. While the use of whips, paddles, and ropes may be amusing toys that's that is what they would remain. While the true acts of Dominance take place in the heart and mind of a submissive.
A girl's purpose is to serve all aspects of her Masters' needs and desires spiritually, mentally and physically.
A girl depends upon the control and direction from her owner to give her life purpose. A girl depends upon a Master to value and need her service to give her life value.
A Master's purpose is to depend upon his girl for the service she provides. He must show her his true needs and desires and then grant her the responsibility to fulfill them. It is the Master's dependence upon the service and devotion of his slave which give's her service meaning.
This is this mutual give and take of a true M/s relationship that forms the basis of a 24/7 relationship.
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My Ideal Person:
That is the problem with this community it is one sided. Owners demand that a girl gives him everything but she matters nothing to him. All the arbitrary rules and service are just fun and games. For example, if all the rules an Owner has were broken by a girl how would that effect his life? Answer, it would make no effect at all. Most Doms depend more upon the service of a waiter in a restaurant then he does upon his girl. Because of this one sidedness most girls are not valued and provide no real service. The rules are just for fun the service is just a game, the girl just a toy. When the owner gets bored or finds a new toy the old on is thrown away and forgotten because it never really had any value even though she was demanded to give him her everything. This is not what I want. I will truly depend on my girls service, the rules will have real meaning and real purpose. I need a girl who will giver everything not because I am some idiot who asks for it but because I will really need and depend upon her. It is not about giving and taking it is about giving and needing. The number of masters out ther who will make themselves vulnerable and depend on their girl is VERY few, I am one of them and that is why I seek a real girl who is willing to serve completly knowing she will be value an needed.
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