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"Control is not a simple thing. It requires vigilance, discipline and sometimes intervention. For only when control is firmly and finally established can one lay claim to the title of Master"
Basic Description
31, male, straight, Dominant. slight toned build. Black hair, brown eyes.
Probably more geeky then is actually healthy, lol. Down to earth and realistic. Since this is an online dating/community site, and I'm on several, i want to stress that I don't do other males. Just not my thing, nothing personal.
Previous Experience
I've been doming since my first major relationship, off and on, probably about 10 years at this point. For the most part I have been doing encounters with locals, sometimes multiple encounters but usually single encounters. My longest relationship involving bdsm was about 2 years.
I have trained vanilla's interested in bdsm or entry subs before, and am always willing to follow limits. I will admit I like to push a sub to widen their experiences, but never by breaking hard limits. At the same time if your limits include 'being tied up, spanked' etc then I will probably pass you by, and before you ask yes I have had a sub give me those as her limitations. So far most
My Equipment
I've got a minor obsession with bdsm toys and tend to pick up anything that I see that catches my fancy. That being said I have WAY too many for someone without any ongoing encounters lol.
Pictures of most of the equipment are up on the site, I may have missed a few items here and there, but you get the idea. I have a particular love of floggers and especially the little slapper.
Specialization(s)
If I had to choose from the typical Dom specializations, I'd say I am a Humiliation Dom with a minor in Bondage and Painplay.
I'm particularly fond of erotic photography, restraints, humiliation, floggers and leash play, but as I have expanded to meet the interests of past subs have learned and preformed most fetishes at some level. I'm willing to try anything provided the sub gives me time to do proper research and there is no health risks to the sub.
Oh, also my humiliation interest has spurred and interest in predicament bondage, in particular forced orgasm delivery. There is something remarkably fun about leaving a sub helpless as the vibrator wand brings about multiple orgasms.
My Limits
I pride myself on being a safe, sane Dom.
I will not do anything which risks the health of the sub. In other words; knife play, gun play, fire play etc are out. Do not mistake this for saying that I don't inflict pain, i just will not cause long term harm. Also icky fetishes like Scat or anything illegal are strictly out.
Goals
I guess the end goal is a long term bdsm relationship. When the time is right I would definitely want to collar a sub, although in my opinion that should wait until both the Dom and Sub are sure of the situation. The best description I've ever heard of what I seek is 'A princess on the streets, a slave between the sheets'.
Some Background on Me
Okay now that that's over with, I'm an artist and photographer. I grew up in a rural environment, love the outdoors particularly hiking. I detest the bar scene and drunks. I don't drink, smoke or do drugs but am not opposed to people doing such as long as their responsible, at the same time I probably won't meet you in a bar. I like to think of myself as a nice guy, at least outside of the bedroom ;)
I have been gainfully employed for my adult life. I own my own car.
Okay well thats decent enough I think, I'm very approachable and welcome any messages. Naturally as someone who is looking I'd love to hear from any local female subs/slaves that may want to discuss possibilities. I'd also love discussion and debates and welcome any messages of a pleasant nature.
> All the Best to everyone in their searches and hope you all find your own kinky happiness.
> P.S. As a Public Service Announcement, I want all Subs who view my profile to check out this website. Its the 'Sub Acid Test', a site designed to give subs a greater ability to identify and eliminate fake doms. Why is a Dom posting this? Because I've seen countless Subs fall victim to fake, loser Doms whose bullshit discourages them from continuing in the fetish community. From my experience the Kingston scene is full of such bullshit (on both sides), so if so much as one Sub can avoid losers I consider it worth the time to post.
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My Ideal Person:
What I'm Looking For
Before anything else i want a serious sub. I seek a real sub, someone with a natural inclination/interest in submissiveness. I realized pretty young from fantasies that I had a natural inclination for restraining or tying up girls, long before I even knew what BDSM was, so I seek the opposite end of the spectrum. A female submissive who had a longing to submit early on. I think that is the best indicator of a real sub.
If you are under 18, if you have a boyfriend, husband, fuck buddy, a dom, a domme or are otherwise unable to devote a reasonable degree of your commitment into a relationship then please say so up front. I simply do not like being lied to or lead on. I morally object to cheaters and will not help you in that pursuit.
So what am I looking for? The only set-in-stone features are that the sub must be Female and preferably Petite, Average or Slightly Overweight (not obese). Please don't take that in a poor manner, I have dated and encountered with heavier girls and its simply not a direction I'm currently looking in. I'm straight and although I support all sexuality, I do not indulge. All the other traits are just guidelines and shouldn't in anyway be considered to disqualify anyone. I preferably younger then 26, but up to 30 can apply. I am naturally attracted to shorter girls and prefer redheads, blondes and girls with straight black hair. I prefer long hair to short (mostly because its easier to hold  ) I would prefer someone local, as it simply makes things much easier, but someone willing to travel is acceptable.
I do not want one of those crazy subs that wants to live in a cage or barn, give over her bank accounts or any of that stuff. I do not want to control every aspect of anyone's life. I also will not be the Dom that gives you gifts in exchange for your submission. If a submissive needs payment for her submission, shes not a real submissive, but something else entirely. Pretty much I want a nice regular girl, who wants regular kinky sex and is down to earth (do they even make those?)
In terms of look I really am not a stickler on such things and besides I can always dress up the sub for roleplay sex lol  I have a weakness for emos, goths, gamer girls and, of course, the girl next door. I tend to shy away from the glamour model type, I don't really have a reason why.. I like a girl that can be reasonable in public and isn't afraid to be a bit slutty at times
A certain amount of exploration and experimentation is a must.
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