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Hello: First off let it be known that I am for REAL and what I seek is someone who has always been in control of their daily work and home life and who would now like to pass the ÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂbatonÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂ of control to another. Someone who is self sufficient, independent, and reliable, but down deep in their heart, know they have that yearning to feel complete by being a submissive or someone who already has been trained and lives the D/s lifestyle. And that she will only be fulfilled in that mission when she finds the Dom she can give her present of submission and trust to. Although I am gentle, soft spoken, and firm, I don't like bs, fakes, flakes, or those who "think" they would like to be a sub (wannabes), but freak out when the real thing is presented to them. In other words, let's not play games!
My philosophy about the BDSM lifestyle can be summed up as follows:
1. The most powerful sex organ in the human body is the brain.
2. There is a fine line between pain and pleasure. Actually I don't think you can have one without the other...within agreed upon limits.
3. There are 3 parts to any D/s relationship...mental control, physical control and sexual control.
I look forward to explore your submissives desires either on line or real time play sessions.
Now about me: I'm a single, unattached, and well traveled, street smart and college educated New York City male who knows what he wants in life. I now live in Nebraska I have a career and have been successful in both business and personal pursuits. I have been a leader all of my life and find I cannot be in a "plain vanilla" relationship. I am a Dom who has a deep, commanding firm voice which by itself, you will find to be a very powerful disciplinary technique who seeks a real time sub. I have some twenty years of experience in this lifestyle. I am into many physical, mental, spiritual, and cultural activities. Love to travel to Europe and the Americas, eat and cook natural organic foods, attend opera, the theater, musical concerts, visit museums, do physical exercise, lift weights and am passionate about whatever I undertake to do while being casual in my attire. I love to be creative with my voice, hands, long fingers, tongue and mouth. I also possess a mischievous and playful sense of humor.. I have found in the time on alt.com, so many people who take themselves seriously. While I understand we all are looking for something or someone for a LTR, I am also realistic that some women just want to have fun without complications, so if we can meet one another along this path of enlightenment knowing ÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂlife is so shortÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂ, why not enjoy the time we have together and make it a pleasured one? There are times I can be playful even when I am being a Dom/Master. Especially when I command you with my deep, melodious voice to please me or pleasure yourself. I am not into extreme pain and find I am more of a firm, but gentle Master then one who wants only pain for his pleasure. Some call me "Daddy", others, a Dom, and then there are a select few who say Master..but first and foremost, I am always a gentleman. And yes, I have sub friends who will attest to that! Write me and let's explore our mutual needs and desires together. This lifestyle is not about sex and intercourse, but about erotica, playfulness, and sensuality brought about by the pleasure of a subÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂs willingness to serve her Master which is a pleasure shared by the Dom and his loved submissive.
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My Ideal Person:
A WOMAN (this means no male, guys men! No transsexuals post or pre op. A real Woman, girl lady from birth)! I am looking for a Woman who is ÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂstreetÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂ smart, obedient, fun loving, playful, submissive female who knows what she wants and is comfortable with who she is. Someone who can communicate beyond one sentence and yet have a nurturing attitude even when we might be in disagreement. One who would like to "dress" for me and enjoy doing things (I am NOT a couch potato) She will be made to feel safe, secure and loved and enjoy many cultural, physical, mental, and travel opportunities. I want a woman who enjoys anal & oral play, along with breasts, nipple and clit restraints (not pain), and spankings. Yes, looks are important to me. I want and need to be attracted to my partner and I expect the same in return. I want to feel the sparks of physical attraction and chemistry. I like women who are well groomed, smart, funny and behave like ladies. She must love to please and be a bit of an exhibitionist (for my eyes-only) who will be my nasty, sexy slut in the bedroom, and my feminine female friend/companion/lover when not. While I am a Dom, I am a gentle one. However, this lifestyle it is NOT a part time game with me. I can't turn off my Dom personality when I leave the bedroom any more then you can turn off being a female submissive. It's either in your heart of hearts and part of your "DNA" or you are playing games. And I donÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂÃÂt play that kind of game!
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