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****UPDATE**** I wanted to make it clear that I am more than happy to send a face pic to anyone who'd interested in my profile - please, just ask.
I'm a fit 45 year old married white mail, I'm DOM. I will occasionaly switch but can count on one hand the number of times I've done that in the last 15 years. It's usually happened with subs I've trained who have evolved over quite a long period and subsequently discovered their true natures. I'm a reasonably experienced practitioner of the dominant art.
In "real life" I have a wide range of interests - I play music, I go to gigs, I hurtle down big hills on my mountain bike and break bones(I know, I'm getting too old for that kind of stuff) I do a bit of SCUBA diving and like a few beers and a spliff now and again.
I'm university educated (which is where I got into the sub/dom scene in the first place) and have a full time job that seems to pay most of the bills. I can mix with most social groups and do not feel or look out of place in fine hotels and restaurants. I'm equally, if not more happy in casual gear, with a couple of pints and a good curry.
There isn't much I'm not into - scat and is about everything on the "no-no" list. Becuase of this, I generally find I can enjoy having fun with most people. I can be as gentle or hard and brutal as my play-partners wish. If you require light bondage and sensual teasing that's great. If you want me to tie you hard, stick needles in your nipples and whip you 'till you scream or shout our safeword that's good too! One thing worth mentioning is that if the play is towards the harder end of the S&M spectrum, I'll consider situations without any sexual contact at all.
I have a few toys - whips/clamps/shackles/ropes/vibes/plugs/TENS unit/violet wand and the like. I am relatively new to electrical play but would like to learn more so any DOMS out there who fancy giving me some hints and tips in this area please drop me a line. I'd also be interested in learning to use a bull-whip - I worked in the USA for a couple of years and whilst there saw a woman take the most intense lashes from one of those - it was incredible to watch.
As regards where we play? I'm afraid I can't accomodate. My other half knows what I'm into and tolerates my predilections as long as I'm discrete. Taking a hotel somewhere is not a problem and I know quite a few places around the country with big four-posters - just the thing for securing ropes to! I'm also into outdoor scenes. I enjoy things like medieval role-play and witchcraft type scenes and know of one or two abandoned buidings just perfect for such experiences on the few days when it's warm enough to do that here in the UK. Outdoor play usually means there are plenty of nettles and birch twigs around too!
I'm NOT looking for a relationship. I already have one of those that I'm very happy with thanks. Whilst I don't mind one-offs, I would like to meet a few people I can play with on a regular basis and maybe do the odd(sic) party or club
Whilst I'm based near between Bristol and Cardiff I travel quite a lot so I'd like to hear from people in West Wales and the South Coast ('cause that's where I go diving) London (business) and Norfolk/Suffolk. Why Norfolk/Suffolk? Well, you have to promise not to laugh or take the p*ss! I'm into bird watching and that's why I go there. I often find that it's easier to tell people I'm a closet sadist than a twitcher but there you go. Does that make me an anorak? Well, think about how many sadistic, mountain-biking, dope-smoking, Glastonbury-Festival-going anoraks YOU'VE ever come across!!!! No, I get called many things by people who know me well - but never an anorak!
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My Ideal Person:
First off, I'm not too hung up on looks. I've had some of the best fun of my life with people who would send me emails starting with something like "well, I'm no oil painting" so don't worry about what you look like!
I'm really looking for no strings fun with intelligent people who don't take themselves too seriously! I don't want to meet hundreds of people either - a small number of play-partners is just great.
Preferences? Well, I really, really get off on making older women submit. If you're female, 45 plus, a little on the heavy side, big tits and into hard play you would be my ideal. Please don't let that put anyone else off though - I've just described my PERFECT play partner. Anyone, couples or singles who are honest, trustworthy and turn up when they say they will are OK by me. So, if you think I might be your sort of chap (or better, your sort of evil sadist ) drop me a line and we'll see what happens. I'm happt to exchange pics once we get to know each other a little via email - oh yes - forgot to say, I'm not into cyber at all - sorry. For me, email is just a convenient and safe way of starting out.
Oh yes, just remembered - sorry, but I don't meet single guys on their own.
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