Hi everyone, and thanks for taking the time to view this profile.
I'm a 46 year old bisexual switch, sometimes into cross-dressing, who is carrying around a little too much padding in places, but who struggles with fad-exercise routines and novelty-diets!
I like the geeky stuff. I tick all the boxes there, sci-fi, horror, comics, books, movies, games, computers and science. I also quite like the creative arts, although whether I'm any good at them is a matter for discussion.
In my personal life I'm happily married, and my wife has the full knowledge and given me her full blessing of what I'm doing. My wife isn't into kink, so sexually she does her thing and I do mine, and since we started that arrangement it's made are marriage and intimacy a hundred times better.
I'm also the parent/full-time carer of a wonderful, brilliant, scarily-bright with quite profound autism, which means my time is somewhat limited.
So, I'm looking for play-partners (online and possibly real-space/clubs) and more importantly friends who I can talk to openly about all this Fetish/BDSM stuff, who get it, and who I can meet up with at events.
I'm more experienced in the submissive role, but am happy to top. I do like intense scenes, and really get into the head-space, but, though I'm into lots of power-exchange, I like normalizing back to friends and equals after the aftercare (if that makes sense!)
I'm open-minded and accepting, and as long as your kink is risk-aware and consensual, and doesn't involve and animals, you won't find any judgement from me. Gay, straight, bi, queer, men, women, trans, fluid, rich, poor, disabled or not, big or slight, and every race are all cool by me.
So, if you want to chat, message, anything like that, hit me up.
Bye.
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p.s. I think I'm supposed to add this. 420 friendly, but not a current user. Don't smoke ciggies anymore, but have no problem with people who do. Occasional social drinker (but on those rare occasions I do I do like a bit of a sesh). Avid vaper and coffee-addict.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm looking people to be friends and people to be play partners.
Fun, creative, people with a wicked imagination. People who care enough to be cruel when necessary. People who needs a firm hand or a shoulder to cry on. People who try not to judge.
Strange is good. Geeky is good. Awkward is good.
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