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grizabela  
I'm submissive, ultimately looking for 24/7
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: July 9, 2016

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Information:
Gender:   Woman
Birthdate:   June 15, 1960
(63 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Guildford, Surrey, United Kingdom
Relocate?:   Yes
Height:   5 ft 6 in / 167-170 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Green
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Submissive
Level of Experience:   More than five years
Dress:   Suit
Social Orientation :   Conservative
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Passive

Personal
Breast Size: 36 / 80 DD (E, if no DD)
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children : Happy with what I have
Occupation: Manager
Religion: Atheist

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63 year old Woman in Guildford, Surrey, United Kingdom Looking For: Men

Profile for grizabela
I’m looking for something quite specific and am probably not going to find it – but not quite ready to admit defeat just yet. I’ve been on this site long enough to know most of the men on here are players. Fine if that’s what you’re looking for, but I’m not, so please don’t contact me if you just want ‘fun’. I’m very submissive and want to move in with a Dom and look after him – in every way - though I realise that would take time and isn't a quick fix. I believe a man should be in charge, and a woman should do as she’s told. I’m not looking for love – if it happened it would be great – but it’s hard enough finding a man sensible enough to have lunch with on this site so love is a little unlikely. So an ‘arrangement’ would do me fine. I would do your housework, cooking, cleaning, do your bidding in every way and be there sexually 24/7. I work from home so could relocate – and would be available to you unless I’m working. I won’t give up my job – not initially anyway – but if it worked out and you insisted I might consider it. If it didn’t work out – I own my house where my adult live and I would simply return here – I have no wish to live with someone who doesn’t want me any more. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A QUICK ROUTE TO A NEW HOME - I HAVE A PERFECTLY COMFORTABLE HOME ALREADY - I GENUINELY NEED A D/S RELATIONSHIP AND HAVE TRIED PART-TIME - BUT IT'S NOT ENOUGH. Age-wise I’m not bothered – though I doubt a man under 40 would have enough gravitas to Dom me successfully. I have no upper age limit. Sex is only important to me as a method of control – if you want it or if you don’t want it – is fine with me. I’ll be no use to you if you’re into orgasm control or edging – I’d be much more use to a man who just wants to take his own pleasure with no regard to mine. I’ll also be no use to someone who wants to beat seven bells out of me. I’m not a masochist. I’ll put up with a certain amount of pain but if you’re really into your impact play for fun, as opposed to punishment or regular discipline I’m probably not for you. I am used to being ‘shared’ by my Dom. PLEASE NOTE: I will not meet you after 1 chat! I find a recurring theme with a lot of 'Doms' on here is that because they're all so controlling they want to direct proceedings before they even meet. Often a sub is just a strong person looking for someone stronger than her. With me I only become 'sub' when I've decided I definitely want to meet someone. Before that my normal assertive - and very careful - self will be talking to you. Some Doms can't accept this perceived slur on their authority so we never get to meet at all - which is a shame as 'grizabela' is a very good sub indeed. The REAL Doms reading this will understand that, but I feel the need to explain it to those of you who think that to be a Dom you simply have to call yourself one, buy a whip, then start ordering women around, and job done .. Sorry but it doesn't work like that for me. So if you don't have the patience to gain my trust please don't contact me in the first place. And if you're a REAL Dom - I'm waiting, and I promise you your patience will be rewarded .. (Regarding my kinks below - these are not necessarily things I have done or want to do - they're simply things that are not limits and which I might be 'persuaded' to try by the right Dom. Anything NOT on the list is probably a limit). [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
I'm seriously looking for an EXPERIENCED, STRAIGHT Dom (NOT a switch) please.
I'm attracted to assertive and confident business-types in suits.
Please don't contact me if you're married - not judging you, but I won't cheat on another woman.
ALSO PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME IF YOU'RE FEMALE, A COUPLE, A SUB OR A SWITCH - I NEED A DOM ONLY! AND I'M ONLY PREPARED TO RELOCATE IN THE UK, SO IF YOU'RE IN THE USA OR EUROPE - WE MIGHT BE A MATCH BUT IT 'AINT GONNA HAPPEN!

And yes all my bits are real. My ex Dom took the pictures especially to put on here, and I resent the implication that I'm trying to fool people. Do men really have such a preconceived idea of what a 60 year old woman should look like?

Things that will probably ensure I won't reply:

1: telling me I look good 'for my age' - it's not a compliment ...

2: An empty profile

3: A picture of your little friend. I'll just delete it. I need someone to engage my mind. I'm drawn to powerful successful alpha males and they tend to be wearing clothes!

4. Bad spelling and grammar - it's lazy and says a lot about the person writing it. There's no excuse with spellcheck.

5. A picture of your car - er, why?

6. One of your interests is 'dogging' - that is just tacky and I'd strongly suggest you keep it to yourself!

7. One of your limits is 'under-age'. Seriously why would you feel the need to state something that isn't even an option? I find it very offensive.

And to all the 'Doms' who read my profile and then rudely query if I'm actually sub. Being sub doesn't mean I roll over and defer to any man who talks to me. It takes a very special man to make me do that - and when I find him he will have my total respect and submission. But lets face it - most of the guys on this site are NOT Doms - so I reserve judgement - and my submission - until I find someone who deserves it. Until then I will simply treat everyone with the same respect they give me. It seems only fair!

To: Sydney University and all other institutions - be my guest !


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