I am a 38 yo male widower. I have a at home who will be the priority. Sorry Goddesses, Mistresses, and Princesses but we can work it out. ;)
I'm looking to explore what is out there. I've come to realize that I am a switch but lean more towards being sub. My experiences are limited to the role playing a married couple sometimes does so there is nothing formal as far as training goes.
Now, although my user ID says "horny" it does not mean I expect sex from a Domme. Part of the Domme/sub dynamic involves no intercourse. I feel this "rule" can be bent but only when all parties are in agreement.
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My Ideal Person:
Someone who is open and wants to explore what turns them (and me) on. Even as sub/Domme there is a symbiosis that requires cooperation from both parties. I'm seeking a dominant, switch, or sub. Ideally, we would chat a little online (as much as you're comfortable with) then meet somewhere public before meeting in private. At the moment I cannot host due to construction. If you can't host then hopefully we can agree on a nuetral place like a hotel (I am willing to foot the bill). I am disease and drug free, drink ocassionally, and have been cigarette free for 2+ months. I would prefer my partner be as well but I can bend on the smoking and drinking (drugs if it is MJ only) but beleive a level of sobriety where you understand what is going on is necessary for safe play. One night stands, no strings attached, and friends with benefits are OK with me. A LTR could be possible down the road but it all depends on the chemistry we would have.
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