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ready to let my subby side out again
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
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| Member Since: March 12, 2006 |
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| Gender: |
Woman
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| Birthdate: |
August 29, 1983
(40 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
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| Lives in: |
Jacksonville, Illinois, United States
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| Relocate?: |
No |
| Height: |
5 ft 4 in / 162-165 cm |
| Body Type: |
Average |
| Smoking: |
I'm a non-smoker |
| Drinking: |
I'm a light/social drinker |
| Drugs: |
I don't use drugs |
| Education: |
PhD/MD/Post doctorate |
| Race: |
Caucasian |
| Sexual Orientation: |
Bi-curious |
| Speaks: |
English |
| Hair Color: |
Brown |
| Hair Length : |
Medium |
| Eye Color : |
Blue |
| Glasses or Contacts : |
None |
| Activities Enjoyed: |
{"33":"Exhibitionism/Sex In Public|1|3","63":"Toys|2|6","68":"Whips|1|6","80":"Biting|2|6","18":"Chains|1|4","46":"Nipples|2|6","30":"Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons)|2|2","16":"Candle Wax|1|2","74":"Making Home \"Movies\"|1|6","6":"Ass Play|2|2","85":"Anal Sex|2|2","39":"Hair Pulling|2|2","9":"Blindfolds|2|4","41":"Lace/Lingerie|2|4","12":"Bondage|3|2","14":"Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.|2|2","52":"Power Exchange|3|6","38":"Handcuffs/Shackles|2|4","49":"Spanking/Paddling|2|2","66":"Vibrators|2|6","24":"Cupping (Suction of the Skin)|1|2","37":"Gangbangs|1|2","76":"Participating in Erotic Photography|2|6","43":"Leather|2|6","19":"Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads|1|4","31":"Domination|3|2","5":"High Heels|2|4"} |
| I think about ALT lifestyle: |
All the time |
| Role: |
Submissive |
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Level of Experience: |
Whole adult life |
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Dress: |
Casual |
| Social Orientation
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Prefer not to say |
| Safe Sex: |
Yes |
| Demeanor: |
Passive |
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Body Decorations
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Tattoo(s)
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| Breast Size | : |
34 / 75 DD (E, if no DD)
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| Pubic Hair | : |
Average |
| Marital Status | : |
Divorced |
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Have Children | : |
No |
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Want Children
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No |
| Religion | : |
Not applicable |
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40
year old
Woman
in
Jacksonville, Illinois, United States
Looking For:
Men, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 men) or Groups
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****I moved this to the top because people have been ignoring it. Just because I am A submissive does not mean I am YOUR submissive. I choose whom I play with very carefully, and any intrusive messages or orders given without any attempt at getting to know ME as a person (not when can you play, what do you do...ME) will no longer be responded to or be met with my fiery red-headed type of response. The D/s dynamic is very psychological to me and I don't play without that connection.****
i've been on alt for several years now, but haven't been able to play for a while. i'm more than a little eager to stretch my submissive muscles and relearn (and then push) my boundaries. since I've been around a while, much of my profile needs an update. feel free to ask if something piques your interest :) This will be quite the undertaking! i have always been interested in the sub/slave and bondage scene, and was collared once several years ago, but it has been a while since I've been able to enjoy such fun. i would love to find someone(s) to explore the funner things in life. try everything once- twice if it doesn't hurt too much ;)
mostly i am looking for a once or twice a month in-person trainer or partner (travel within reason is not much of an issue) with some Dom/Topping experience to explore my submissive nature and push my boundaries with scenes and training sessions. This, of course, can be supplemented with some online play, but i am a busy adult and not on here every day to answer. this is not to be disrespectful- it it the art of navigating two separate worlds and keeping them separate. i am not looking for a full-time Dom, and have very strong opinions about the differences between play, submission, bottoming, and slave- so please stop with the condescending "you can't sub twice a month, that's not a submissive" garbage. it's dis-respectful to me, and my first Dom, as that is what He believed as well. Besides, all that tells me is that despite Your "experience", You have much to learn and i was extremely lucky with my initial introduction into this lifestyle. and yes, i am a bit of a brat, until i've chosen to submit to someone ;P
i am in an open-relationship with my roommate, who also happens to be an amateur photographer that is interested in trying this lifestyle out as well as becoming a fetish photographer. he knows what i am seeking and we are both ok with play with others, in case that comes up. he will not be a part of any play here unless that is explicitly discussed before hand...and would largely entail photography :) i also have a couple of friends I occasionally play with, and would continue to do so, safely of course. I travel to Chicago twice a month for work and would happily meet during that time, and also find myself in the St. Louis area almost weekly now, but other travel is possible. weekends are by far the best for me, but it's not always a guarantee i'll be free.
i believe in a well-rounded life, and this aspect has been missing for some time. it has been quite some time since i played hard, and i have lost quite a bit of weight, so much more is possible. i know i have some much to learn, try, and re-learn. i also am open to new experiences and learning ways to please others :) i hope my answer pleases You. i also accept all friend requests, as i feel there is much to learn from everyone's experiences.
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My Ideal Person:
while I am very much a submissive behind closed doors, i keep that life private from most. As such, discretion is a must. i like to play, but am also very selective on who i play with. having been around for some time, it saddens me the number of Dom/mes and the like that assume a sub is simply Theirs for the taking without building any trust. i do not presume to speak for all, but to me the act of submission is among the most personal and intimate gifts that can be given. it is not to be taken lightly. as such, trust needs to be built.
i also am not looking for a 24/7 power exchange. i am not on here 24/7 (despite what the phone apparently says lol) and get extremely busy. i live a well rounded life and this is simply one part of it. i don't expect instantaneous responses to my messages from anyone in any aspect of my life and expect the same general courtesy, so please don't blow up my inbox when life happens and i don't immediately respond. if You'd like to know more, feel free to send me a message. it may take me some time, but i will get back to You as best i can. also, while no trainer, i do enjoy chatting with other subs that are interested in learning more. it is sometimes nice to hear from experience ^_^
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