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Dirtycumlover 72 M
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Trying to find a male master   7/1/2005

Iam still new to being a slave but id like to know why is it that i cant find any group or master that is close to where i live, i noticed that they dont have some of the towns that arent big cities but i dont live in palm springs or san bernadino i live by victorville, calif and we cant find anything close to that or any group around here, i would really love to find me a good master to ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 0 Votes
dynamitesneon 41 M
10 Articles
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VirginalFreaky is my new favorite   6/29/2005

And I'd like it if you would send me something. This is my address for yah oo, and it looks like we're online together quite a bit. Lets talk, I'm fimiliar with your situation.


0 Comments, 106 Views, 4 Votes
behavenow2 53 F
3 Articles
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what is normal   6/23/2005

What is normal what in the world today descibes normal and what makes somone srange I mean with everything today I thing everyone is so out there there is no line anymore


4 Comments, 158 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
gentlerain44 64 F
2 Articles
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Safety   6/22/2005

Rule 1 -Public Meetings | Rule 2- tell a friend | Rule 3 - First scenes | Rule 4 Safety checks | Rule 5 Silent alarms | Rule 6 - Home free call <br> Class 1- IM's | Phone calls | Class 2 First meets | Safe Calls | First Scenes | Safe Word | Safe Sex | Emotional Safety | Heed warnings of others <br> This is part of a comprehensive training program for Submissives and ...


1 Comments, 206 Views, 12 Votes ,6.33 Score
iomroir 51 F
2 Articles
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tease and denial   6/21/2005

The knowledge that we are arousing another is deeply powerful (if also intrinsically suspending of disbelief, as it is in one's own mind that arousal actually takes place). By telling your lover, when she is touching you with the intention of turning you on, that she is succeeding *so* much that you are close to losing control...is to compliment her enormously and thus no doubt to very much ...


2 Comments, 455 Views, 18 Votes ,6.67 Score
Tye_and_jas 59,1950 C
2 Articles
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Kink...What do you think?   6/18/2005

My Master/Husband and I are considering the possiblity of embarking on a sexual adventure. We’re tnking about living out our deepest, wildest fantasies, turning wet dreams into reality. I have a very real question, that, I am sure many women ask…what if? <br> <br> I guess it comes down to fun versus consequences. I would like to know how other people; women ...


3 Comments, 234 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
Tye_and_jas 59,1950 C
2 Articles
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Building Trust   6/18/2005

Most of us in here have been around the block one or twice. I think it would be safe to say that not all of us have come out un-scared either. What happens when you finally meet the right One? I have met mine, He is my Master, my brand new Husband and my best friend. With Him, I have felt depths of emotions I have never before felt with another. He really makes my heart smile. The issue ...


1 Comments, 84 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
mary444 55 F
7 Articles
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MILF   5/28/2005

What exactly does MILF stand for? I've checked the glossary but it's not listed


4 Comments, 797 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
your_kinky_slave 55 M
4 Articles
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Please give me an advice   5/27/2005

I`m a male slave. I love to be humiliated and most of all i like to be sodomized by females Mistress with strapon. The thing is that i realised that they get more satisfactiuon from doing this when the strapon is bigger and bigger. I`m 35 years old, but do you think that after some years i will have problems with my rectum ?


5 Comments, 500 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
MarinaBlack 56 F
3 Articles
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The Courage to Make the Connection   5/22/2005

It was the Fetish Masquerade’s Corset Party last night and I didn't know what to expect. I'm fairly recetly out of a vanilla relationship and have not been a participant in the fetish scene for around 8 years. I had intended to go there to look fabulous and dance the night away with my friends, but I had no idea what was in store. <br> I saw a pretty goth boy that I ...


0 Comments, 213 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
your_kinky_slave 55 M
4 Articles
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i`m not a real slave?   5/20/2005

Some of the Mistress that i talked to they asked me to do some things that i don`t want to be involved in....for example like rough whipping. I`m very much into humiliation practices. If i refuse some practices that means i`m not a 100% slave ?


4 Comments, 449 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
your_kinky_slave 55 M
4 Articles
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it`s normal this way ?   5/19/2005

Im` a 35 years old male slave from Roamnia. Until now i didn`t found a real Mistress. When i say real Mistress i mean a lady who wants to dominate because she feels this way. I had to pay financials Domina to fulfill my fantazies. Is this ok?


1 Comments, 170 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
useyourslut2 65 F
1 Article
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I need advice on how to sexually torture my DOM   5/11/2005

Hello, and thank you for reading my cry for help. I have always been sexually submissive, but have only started to experience this type of relationship quite recently so I haven't had a lot of experience. What I need advice about is, my Dom has told me that he sometimes likes to be submissive too and wants me to 'use' him sexually. He wants me to inflict sexual torture on him. I really ...


2 Comments, 585 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
Oregon_Jan 46 F
68 Articles
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Ways of dealing with life   5/5/2005

Ways of dealing with the burdens of life: <br> * Accept that some days you're the pigeon, and some days you're the statue. * Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them. * Always read stuff that will make you look good if you die in the! middle of it. * Drive carefully. It's not only cars that can be recalled by their maker. * If you can't ...


4 Comments, 231 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
Oregon_Jan 46 F
68 Articles
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Dangers of anal sex   5/5/2005

Anal sex, if practised with care, is possible for most couples. It does, however, carry additional health risks and there are safer sexual practices that couples can enjoy. The main health risks, which affect both heterosexual and homosexual couples, are: <br> Human immunodeficiency virus (HIV): there is good research evidence that anal intercourse carries a greater risk of ...


2 Comments, 729 Views, 21 Votes ,6.22 Score
867LOVE2206 45 M
3 Articles
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What Men Want   4/28/2005

Well it is always a challenge to figure out what the brothas want or if they are comfortable or love what you have to offer. Then again getting a man is easy, keeping him is the real deal. <br> <br> The idea i'm trying to give is that a lot of sistas out ther thinks that all a man wants is to get between their legs. Mind you majority does want to get ...


1 Comments, 347 Views, 11 Votes ,0.74 Score
ineedlovin403 103 M
1 Article
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Nipple Enhancment, enlargement, sensitivity, etc.   4/28/2005

I have been dressing in bras, things, thigh highs and garters ever since my lady friend got me to try it. Now she has got me hooked on sucking on my nipples while we are having sex together. She has big beautiful nipples and she is wondering if anyone has any non surgical suggestions to enlarge or enhance the nipples and the darken and enlarge my smaller nipples. Her fantasy is to have ...


3 Comments, 987 Views, 27 Votes ,3.45 Score
fullofwisdom 58 M
1 Article
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SET YOUR HEARTS ON THINGS ABOVE   4/21/2005

“Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God.” - Colossians 3:1 <br> <br> <br> SET YOUR HEARTS ON THINGS ABOVE <br> <br> Christians shouldn't be concerned with the 'things of this world'. God has promised to fulfill all of our needs. He has also commanded us to ...


3 Comments, 237 Views, 10 Votes ,0.60 Score
HouseofBear 64 C
2 Articles
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Choosing a prospective dominant   4/15/2005

There are several questions you can ask of a potential dominant. The one thing I want you to bear in mind, however, is that just because you ask a question and receive an answer from a potential dom does not mean they are going to give you a truthful answer. In fact, the same is true of a dominant asking questions of a potential submissive/slave. From past experiences, where I ...


3 Comments, 1436 Views, 72 Votes ,7.45 Score
tk9616 40 M
2 Articles
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Any advice for how to meet someone for Online Play?   4/13/2005

In an earlier article several people posted that trying out submission online might be just the thing for me due to a lack of people in my location, and my complete lack of experience in the area. <br> I was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to go about meeting someone who is interested in engaging in bdsm email and message exchange so that I can try and get a taste of what ...


1 Comments, 222 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Oregon_Jan 46 F
68 Articles
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Douche as birth control or "cleaning"?   4/6/2005

The National Women's Health Information Center, a division of the Department of Health and Human Services, tells us that to douche immediately following intercourse will NOT prevent pregnancy, but could cause an ectopic pregnancy. <br> Most research shows that women who douche on a routine basis tend to have more problems than women who do not douche or who rarely douche. A ...


1 Comments, 329 Views, 8 Votes ,5.56 Score
cdukcd 45 T
2 Articles
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How do you tell your girlfriend that you are a crossdresser?   4/6/2005

I told my first grilfriend straight out.... She went a running and along with the running came a lot of gossip and alot of flack which i obviously denided and said that "i was only joking i only wanted to see what she would say" <br> I left this for some time and never told any other for quite some time as i didnt want to go through this again. Anyway i ended up moving in with a ...


4 Comments, 488 Views, 20 Votes ,4.53 Score
cdukcd 45 T
2 Articles
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Trying to find a partner who will accept me for who i am   4/6/2005

Im finding it dificult to find a partner who will accept me for who i am, or should i say for what i wear. Im a crossdresser in my mid 20`s, i dont wear womens clothes all the time but i do like to come home from work and just get dressed up and relax. My past girlfriends have known about me crossdressing and said that they were fine with it but obviously not. I would come down stairs ...


1 Comments, 388 Views, 13 Votes ,2.47 Score
jillyshub 57 T
6 Articles
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Special Interest Groups   4/4/2005

I have just started an special interest Group called "Playing in Panties" and was wondering if anyone who has been a member for a while could help or advise me on how I can publicise it? <br> As with all things, the more well known it is, the more activity it generates. What I don't want is to annoy people who aren't interested in this area. <br> Any advice / tips ...


3 Comments, 141 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
MasterNcatlover5 56 C
1 Article
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MY THOUGHTS ON THE WAY OTHERS TREAT SWITCHES/ THINK ABOUT IT   4/3/2005

Well I have been in this lifestyle for a very long time before I meet my best friend and soul mate/Master. I was a Mistress before I became a switch, I was trained as a Mistress many years ago, and never thought in my wildest dreams, would I ever submit to a man, and for over 11 years I did not and I was happy with that, until I met my Master, and now I am very comfortable with who I am and ...


1 Comments, 308 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
25cm25cm 57 M
2 Articles
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How to prevent damage ??   3/30/2005

Hi all. <br> Does anyone know anything about how long time ones balls can sustain limited or none bloodflow without doing (permanent) or any damage to them. <br> My partner and I enjoys very much her trampling my balls/ballsack, but obviously we don't want any damage to occur. <br> Please give your advice.


3 Comments, 474 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
newtoyforuse67 56 M
6 Articles
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New to all of this   3/29/2005

I am new to this whole lifestyle and while I do understand most aspects I don't understand them all. This however is not my biggest problem, my biggest problem is getting started. I despartly need some help in getting more involved (i.e. get toethers, meeting people, basically all aspects) Can someone please point me in the right diredtion and give me some pointers as well, it would be ...


3 Comments, 289 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
iteaseyouplease 49 F
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Vanilla Marriage Woes   3/24/2005

I am very new to BDSM, but the more I learn about it, the more I know it is something I will always want in my life. My spouse and I are currently separated, for many reasons, one of them being my desire for sexual adventure (we've tried swinging and spoken often about various ideas). He wants to work things out, but is adamant about not having those kinds of things in our relationship. ...


13 Comments, 587 Views, 17 Votes ,4.54 Score
wolf_hunter01 40 M
2 Articles
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Getting someone to reply   3/24/2005

I know that getting someone to reply is up to the person the the messege was sent to but, even after trying for 3 years, I still haven't gotten a favorable response. Any help here.


0 Comments, 265 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Angel4777 49 F
10 Articles
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-Hide and Seek-   3/24/2005

The sentence of time, moving on the hands of the clock, wandering, waiting, seeking, searching. moments to precious, life to short. find the presence and essence of freedom and exsistance, giving chance to the fullness of truth beyond all that we have come to learn and believe in our lives. giving instead of a neatly wraped package, an open book that contains ever bit of everything you wish ...


0 Comments, 72 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score