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ropeloco 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
so many scammers - 7/11/2019

this is my second time around on this site. years ago i met the love of my life on here, unfortunately she recently passed away so i thought i'd try again...so far it's been a total drag, the last three women who contacted me ended up asking for ..it sucks and i'm about ready to give up....is there anyone real on here or am i just fooling myself ?

36 response(s), 40 votes
hunnybunny88 35 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Location, location, location - 7/8/2019

A question came up a while back about favorite sex positions, and it got me thinking. <br><br> Where's the kinkiest place you've ever had sex (vanilla or otherwise)?

1 response(s), 0 votes
BoundForceOrgasm 26 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Do you find the dik piks annoying? - 7/5/2019

Are dik piks what people want too see? Or do you wish that guys did not post this as their profile photo?

54 response(s), 58 votes
Lrd_Strap 66 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Fish ad - 7/4/2019

What is it with the HD fish ad?

10 response(s), 17 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Way too many bots! - 6/27/2019

Seriously, am I the only one getting bombarded by the same exact message from different bots on here? stuff like "hey ALT.com now at gmA_ildot .." or "do you like BDSM..." or even I love oral but hate condoms..." It cannot be any more obvious or dumb yet it really makes the site and IM real irritating and drains the energy out of everyone.

25 response(s), 30 votes
missionfreak 60 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Black Cams, how to get over this? - 6/27/2019

Hi all I can see are black cams, but others say that other free member are able to see cams. Are there some settings I need to change somewhere?

13 response(s), 19 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Instant Messages no Shows - 6/21/2019

For the past 2-3 weeks, it's been impossible to: 1) see your friends in the IM friends tab - but if you scroll down the list of chatters there they are 2) send a message, and reach the recipient - it just shows the message in the window with no status whatsoever <br><br> Thought it was just on my side but I tested it with friends sitting in the same room as me physically, on ...

42 response(s), 53 votes
Nylonsanddildos 53 T
1 question
Score 0.0
Anybody here ever meet up at show world in west babylon - 6/19/2019

Looking meet some guys for some fun at showworld

5 response(s), 17 votes
WetHornyHot10 45 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Cams In The Dark - 6/13/2019

Was hoping to check of web camera videos on , but all i getting is dark space on the screen. I am a standard member was wondering if anyone else was having this problem too?

41 response(s), 43 votes
nudepainter 59 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Barns ? - 6/13/2019

so am I the only one with a deep desire to be locked and used in a barn ?

14 response(s), 20 votes
albanynycouple51 62 C
19 questions
Score 0.0
into real time fetish ? - 6/11/2019

fetish night at riplayground providence ri this sat june 15. we going you cum ing?
...

11 response(s), 27 votes
atong4u 74 M
7 questions
Score 0.0
POINTS Disipering ?? - 6/9/2019

Just wondering if anyone else has seen their points drop ? I don't have a lot but when a third disappear over night and I didn't use them <br><br> .

21 response(s), 28 votes
juicyslut2001 66 F
6 questions
Score 0.0
Alt mail changes? - 6/8/2019

I don;t think I like the way Alt is displaying now in my . Does anyone know if there's a way to switch it back to the way it used to display?

12 response(s), 38 votes
popeyej45 72 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
Daytona Beach - 6/3/2019

Headed to D.B. later this summer. Would appreciate any suggestions for adult entertainment--theaters, book stores, munches, video arcades, open minded bars or clubs---any advice is appreciated.

9 response(s), 31 votes
SlaveM55 66 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How do I unfriend someone? - 5/31/2019

I accepted someone as a friend a couple of weeks ago, but they are clearly not.

3 response(s), 12 votes
albanynycouple51 62 C
19 questions
Score 0.0
albany ny area couples n dom black men any seeking real meets? - 5/28/2019

putting a meet n freak out in albany ny this sunday afternoon june 2.we meet over drink then freak at hotel party room.any local dom black men n couples who love em seeking real time this sunday?
...

11 response(s), 31 votes
MrSolo1955 68 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Faces not asses! - 5/27/2019

Why? Why?? WHY!!! <br><br> Asses and nice and all but I'm here to meet new people/ pets. For me, the eyes really are the window to the soul and a smile, or lack thereof can tell me a million things about a person. <br><br> So How am I supposed to get to know you via your glutial muscles? Let me look into you! let me know a bit about the mind I want to mindfuck. That ...

12 response(s), 24 votes
candy_stickkk 38 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Can i watch even ONE cam? - 5/27/2019

When i try to watch a member livecam i recieve a message that standart members can view only one cam at time but i can't watch even ONE. I 'm not watching any cams and it still writes that i can't watch more than ONE, when i don't watch any. Deleted coockies, history and even browser and still the same! Please give me some help what to do to watch that ONE cam i can watch when ...

7 response(s), 26 votes
candy_stickkk 38 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Live Member Webcams - 5/27/2019

When i try to watch a member livecam i recieve a message that standart members can view only one cam at time but i can't watch even ONE. I 'm not watching any cams and it still writes that i can't watch more than ONE, when i don't watch any. Deleted coockies, history and even browser and still the same! Please give me some help what to do to watch that ONE cam i can watch when ...

4 response(s), 14 votes
KindDommexx 52 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Having account removed - 5/26/2019

A friend has had her account removed 5 times. Each time she starts again. It is after a time removed. These removals have always happened the day after she is contacted by a certain user. She does not respond as this user is known to her as a nasty man who threatens those who say "no" <br><br> On contacting the site she is put through t the abuse team and is told her ...

13 response(s), 39 votes
U_N_Me 70 T
1 question
Score 0.0
posting an article - 5/24/2019

posting, but I seem not to be a member of a group. how do I do ?

1 response(s), 18 votes
daisymaytv 112 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
the usual chat request - 5/23/2019

<br><br> Hi <br><br> Now I have been around here for quite a few years now so generally know how the site dose and dosnt work. <br><br> I also know that as a non paying member (I recently lost my free gold) that you only get the chance to initiate 5 chats a day. <br><br> The other day I answered a chat request from a person I chat to on a regular ...

13 response(s), 24 votes
iwan2plz 23 F
1 question
Score 0.0
How can I politely tell someone to stop bothering me - 5/20/2019

Some guys just can't take a hint. What's the best way to get them to leave me alone?

24 response(s), 35 votes
HerPlayToyForUse 36 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
How do you trust again after being ghosted by your Owner/Domme? - 5/20/2019

Recently I had an Owner just stop talking to me and blocked me out of absolutely nowhere. Nothing warranted this, neither of us had any problems leading up to this, this is not the first time this has happened but it is the one is having the most impact on my psychologically. It makes me think "what's wrong with me". <br><br> I'm tired of all the scammers and fakes ...

9 response(s), 17 votes
descreetsos 48 M
1 question
Score 0.0
why is being told to do taboo things exciting - 5/18/2019

Why is it so exciting to be bonded and have a woman force you to give a stranger head or be fucked hard by a man you dont even know who it is.

11 response(s), 21 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
Requests for money on social sites. - 5/13/2019

She meets on a social site. Within a couple of days She becomes and more friendly and send hot photos of her.In next week she appears sad and says that she is not happy. When asked she needs money and she needs to pay for the bills of hospital as her close relation had an accident and struggling for life. Hospital expenses are mounting and to foot the bills she asks for immediate help without ...

21 response(s), 33 votes
Skeptic454 39 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Logged into someone’s account - 5/7/2019

This is extremely scary that I am logged into someone’s account and can see everything they have done. I didn’t nothing but try to log into my account. Thinking anyone and everyone should start looking at legal action cause all your info is compromised...

21 response(s), 46 votes
discreetINplay 63 M
1 question
Score 0.0
BDSM video on demand that was paid for - 5/4/2019

Where is the content and what is the sign in and password?

0 response(s), 0 votes
popeyej45 72 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
female gangbang - 5/3/2019

Do groups of females ever get together and gang bang another female??

16 response(s), 38 votes
SilverVixen25 60 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Messages - 4/27/2019

Is the only way to contact someone by email? So far the women contacting me, want my email address. I am unsure if I am supposed to do this or not. Looking forward to someone answering me. Thanks....

5 response(s), 17 votes