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Hungrynsearching 71 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Strict - 3/8/2018

How does or where does one look for either a Dom/Domme for extreme punishment? One who isn't out for just money, I been there and done that. I try but most folks (Dom/Domme won't respnd). I understand that. I assuming it is bad luck on my part? Yes there are requirements, but minor to most people. Thanks

9 response(s), 29 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Nudism on the East Coast - 3/5/2018

Have you been to any nudist beaches or camps on the eastern seaboard ? Which s did you prefer and would recommend ?

14 response(s), 31 votes
curious_subNSC 70 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Ladies watching men - 3/1/2018

Ladies do you enjoy watching and or directing 2 men together. Either in real time , on cam or in movies? If so what would you like to watch them do or direct them to do?

10 response(s), 38 votes
popeyej45 72 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
regions?? - 2/26/2018

Now have noticed that when I hit on a category in a particular region I get profiles from all over the country instead of confined to that geographical location. Any advice or suggestions from anyone or is this just another shitty day in paradise???

7 response(s), 29 votes
shortyjohnson 76 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Pop up list of Friends online - 2/20/2018

Other than seeing Friends on IM, is there a way to see what friends are online?

3 response(s), 23 votes
MastROfPupets 56 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
Any other ALT users been Tipped point that they did not get? - 2/13/2018

I was recently tipped 101 points that never made it to my account, it is recorded in my activity section but there is no record of the points given in the Gifts Received section. <br><br> Have any other users noticed this Major Failure in the ALT website to function as intended? <br><br> I wonder how many other users are having their points stolen by ALT management this ...

14 response(s), 29 votes
SPLITN2 49 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Anal sex... - 2/4/2018

I am 43 years old and I have never done anal sex before and I am very curious and nervous about it...Any advice on this would be helpful..Thank you for your time...

42 response(s), 91 votes
TimidJaneCD 62 T
16 questions
Score 0.0
Cam watcher delights - 2/2/2018

What would you like tto see someone on cam do for your entertainment ? What cam action excites you ? What cam action turns you off ?

12 response(s), 28 votes
MastROfPupets 56 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
ALT IMC Issues unfairly remove points from users. - 1/31/2018

Currently there are a huge amount of faults with the ALT IMC system. <br><br> Chats initiated do not connect. <br><br> Chats that do connect stop mid conversation. <br><br> Messages sent fail to reach destination. <br><br> Photos sent fail to reach destination. <br><br> The typing indicator shows who you are chatting with is typing but ...

11 response(s), 34 votes
MastROfPupets 56 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
Flirted with me,Confirmed profile, hot photo is it what it appears? - 1/31/2018

Flirted with me, Confirmed profile, hot photo is it what it appears? <br><br> Recently I have noticed this happen many times on my account. <br><br> When I message these so called confirmed ALT members, there is never Any reply from them. <br><br> Clearly they are Bots designed to steal your points. <br><br> Beware ALT users, profiles are not what ...

18 response(s), 30 votes
cuzSHEsaidto 63 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
is it too hard to respond to an im? - 1/26/2018

Alt really makes it easy to respond with canned responses. Are you really that lazy? Are you rea;;y that full of yourself? Are you really that rude? Are you really that poor in the social graces that you don't know how to respond with a no thank you, Hi back or a simple CANNED response alt supplies you with? <br><br> If you can not respond how do you think you can be a good ...

35 response(s), 59 votes
cuzSHEsaidto 63 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Taboo - 1/25/2018

What taboo or taboo's would you consider as a deal breaker or possibly something to interest you in that person?

18 response(s), 29 votes
wantingD 65 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
Points - 1/24/2018

I've been a member here for a pretty long time and I used to have a lot of points but now they're gone. Does anyone know what's up with that? Thank You!!

22 response(s), 33 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
Getting comments on blogposts... - 1/23/2018

In recent months I have not got a single comment for the blog posts I made. I am a standard member. What could be the reason or ALT IS not allowing?.

12 response(s), 15 votes
bigg_gguy 40 M
1 question
Score 0.0
do you enjoy the taste of semen - 1/17/2018

please discuss in detail

27 response(s), 42 votes
Simplyalbertaman 71 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Secrets - 1/13/2018

Do you keep a secret affair on the side of a relationship? If yes what are the key ways you maintain it? If No, have you wanted to have a secret friend and been scared to act? Why?

12 response(s), 21 votes
MastROfPupets 56 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
Why would ALT charge points for an IMC chat that never connects? does this seem fair to anyone? - 1/12/2018

Why would ALT charge points for an IMC chat that never connects? <br><br> Does this seem fair to anyone?

12 response(s), 33 votes
differntstrokes 62 M
10 questions
Score 0.0
Would you? - 1/10/2018

It appears that there are many straight gentlemen on this site who enjoy being pegged by a dildo-wearing lady I was wondering if you are a gentlemen who does enjoy this, would you draw the line at being butt-fucked by an attractive, feminine pre-op transsexual?

17 response(s), 18 votes
curious_subNSC 70 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
initial chat conversation - 12/31/2017

Ladies and Gentleman What conversation subjects do you like to engage in during the first initial chat conversation? Are the any subject that are off limits? What subject matters are best saved for the second and after?

8 response(s), 21 votes
TpaM4F 50 M
1 question
Score 0.0
New Years - 12/29/2017

Is it too much of a cliche to be having sex to end the year and starting the new ? For some reason I have d this before and always get excited to do again?

9 response(s), 12 votes
TheFirmhand_UK 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Best way to verify potential partners - 12/28/2017

If you're wanting to meet other couples for mutual play, how does one sort out the genuine people from the pretenders? <br><br> Is there some sort of recommendation system, or a way of making negative experiences available for others to take note of? My impression is that a huge number of members are just here to satisfy their curiosity - and there's nothing wrong with that, ...

11 response(s), 28 votes
CodyTarget 30 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Account Verification? - 12/17/2017

How in the world does this account verification work? From what I have read you just upload a photo of yourself holding a sign that has your username on it. Am I wrong in thinking that is all there is to it? Because I have had one of those pictures in my account for about a year now and I am still waiting as it continues to be under the label of pending approval. Any advice or thoughts all?

13 response(s), 22 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
Is it a healthy trend?.... - 12/17/2017

As we advnce in life with years, our experience is valued much and our sensual part that is horny feeling decreases seeing a woman and we rarely get excited seeing even a semi-nue woman. But it is seen that people with advancing age in their 50's and 60's do love to see porn on internet in their privacy.They do not go to women and rather prefer to see porn and satisfy their fancie. Is it ...

12 response(s), 31 votes
tryanythingtwic3 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
younger and internet porn - 12/14/2017

do you think internet porn has changed the way people have sex <br><br> I think it, s more of an age thing, "generational" people my age or in their 40, s did not have porn so readily available. <br><br> younger people were raised on internet porn. I, ll give the way women give head as an example, , women in their 30, s or younger that i have been with want you ...

10 response(s), 26 votes
looking4fat 72 T
9 questions
Score 0.0
When searching for a Dom; how Zealous should a "sub" be? - 12/14/2017

Knowing that each Dom/Master/Top and each sub/slave/bottom is different, in general, and specific to this site: How hard should a sub work in pursuit of a particular Dom? <br><br> <br><br> Dom's do You want a sub to initiate contact? To beg to serve? Or to simply make it clear that he/she is willing to serve? <br><br> <br><br> subs, how do you ...

15 response(s), 31 votes
CodyTarget 30 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Honest opinion people? - 12/3/2017

I have found a dom via another site and we have since meeting on the site got together for some getting to know each other time and light training. My only real problem seems to be that he seems to want to be moving way to fast right out of the gate whereas I, while truly looking for experience and knowledge, am not sure if I am ready for a full on dom sub relationship. My question is how do I ...

17 response(s), 30 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
Sex matters... - 12/3/2017

Man and woman driven by lust depend much on sexual intercourse. It is practical and useful to have fore play and kissing. At times man tongues pussy and heightens woman's desire for sex. But I have a quetion....Should woman also give blowjob?

12 response(s), 24 votes
HerPlayToyForUse 36 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Why so many girls asking for "tributes"? - 12/3/2017

99% of the time I contact someone here and we start talking things always end up going south in the way of they want money or stuff off their Amazon wishlist. Everyone is either a bot or someone looking for suckers to give them money. <br><br> I understand there's such a thing as findommes but these are not that, these are thieves

18 response(s), 28 votes
HerPlayToyForUse 36 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
So many bots here - 12/3/2017

I came across a CONFIRMED bot today. As hard as it is to be a male sub here, it doesn't help wasting points to chat with people who end up being bots. How does a bot even get a confirmed status here?

9 response(s), 28 votes
Switchinneed 38 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
How do I tame gag reflex - 12/2/2017

Hi all <br><br> Last night I was getting fucked by my sexy latex clad neighbour and his mates the trouble is my latex clad neighbour has a thirteen inch cock as you can imagine its hard not to gag I have always gad trouble with anything that goes in my mouth including those xray thing the dentist use. <br><br> I was looking for some advice on how to bypass the gag reflex ...

5 response(s), 16 votes