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iusedtobesweet17 48 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Does this happen to you? - 2/27/2017

Today I'm so horny. I've masterbated 3 times and just keep wanting more and more. Does this happen to you or am I just a shameless slut?

12 response(s), 22 votes
Simplyalbertaman 71 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
why are so few willing to write artilcles - 2/18/2017

Seem few people are willing to express there adventures here? Is there a reason for that?

10 response(s), 24 votes
shybaby007 32 F
1 question
Score 0.0
not getting any message and can't view profiles - 2/15/2017

please i can't view profile and i am not getting any messages.... can i still be contacted i need new friends

9 response(s), 35 votes
suboralmn 60 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Cock Sucking Creampie Eating Vacation Boston! - 2/7/2017

I am due for a vacation and I am investigating the possibility of a hot submissively oral vacation where I can suck lots of cock and clean out creampies. Is there a group that has regular gangbangs with a fast machine who keeps her motor clean? Kind of looking for a metropolitan city with a little bit of culture along with my kinky exploration!





Boston it IS~! ...

9 response(s), 64 votes
differntstrokes 62 M
10 questions
Score 2.1
Insecure site? - 1/30/2017

Let me say from the outset that I am not very computer savvy.

I normally log into Alt through Mozilla. When I do, I now see that the little padlock has a red line through it, indicating the site is insecure and when checking further, I am warned personal details are in danger.

I tried through another server, only to be told that Alt does not have a security certificate and ...

10 response(s), 23 votes
shibuingeisha 70 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Dying flames - 1/16/2017

After nearly 10 years living together, my Dom has lost all libido. It's been 3 years since He touched me in any sexual way yet he claims to love me . How to rekindle the roaring inferno that brought us together?

16 response(s), 34 votes
ColneaJoans 67 F
13 questions
Score 0.0
Should we be able to use flowers & points to read our Alt messages ? - 1/10/2017

It makes sense to me, if we can use points (that we get from flowers, posting, etc) to send a message or look at a profile (as standard members) , why can't we use those points to read our inbox messages?

I asked the question a while ago at the site support blog (see: Site Problems, Bug reports, Customer Feedback and Suggestions September 2016 ) and received an answer but it still seems that people cannot read the messages that get sent to ...

20 response(s), 45 votes
play_toy_2017 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Play time - 1/9/2017

Are there any real peoples out there?

10 response(s), 33 votes
OLD_WHITESLAVE 69 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Instant Messenger not working ? - 12/31/2016

My IM seems to work when it feels like it, most of the time it will not open. I have cleared my cache, cookies, tried a different browser, all several times, it makes no difference, anyone else have this problem?

20 response(s), 38 votes
Domme91slave93 30 C
3 questions
Score 0.0
Need advice - 12/28/2016

So as many of you know I am a fairly new Mistress and there are times that I feel overwhelmed by all of this stuff. I need advice on how to control that and be the best Mistress I can be. I must point out that I am not a single woman but I am in committed relationship. Thank you in advance and please be kind with your responses. They are greatly appreciated.

6 response(s), 30 votes
Domme91slave93 30 C
3 questions
Score 0.0
Cumming during oral sex - 12/28/2016

Often when my bf/slave gives me oral pleasure, he cums from it. Why does this happen and is it normal?

6 response(s), 34 votes
daisymaytv 112 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Location - 12/27/2016

Hi I live in the UK in West London

Just been on IM (don't laugh) and quite a few people claim to come from a garrison town called Aldershot.

The following places are where they claim Aldershot is

ESSEX HERTFORDSHIRE WEST MIDLANDS KENT DEVON BATH - AVON CORNWALL LONDON SURREY SUFFOLK CHANNEL ISLANDS BRISTOL

Only one person claimed to come from Aldershot ...

8 response(s), 22 votes
perceptionisall 60 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How many REAL women? - 12/26/2016

Are there any genuine women on Alt or just scammers? I've been on here a month now & I've only had fake profile contacts. I was on here last year & there were definitely more genuine people then. What has happened? Perceptionisall.

17 response(s), 32 votes
slavesteve0 64 M
1 question
Score 0.0
hair - 12/15/2016

Does anyone have pubic hair anymore? i don't, do you.

13 response(s), 35 votes
TimidJaneCD 62 T
16 questions
Score 0.0
Can a guy cum using anal sex and no other stimulation? - 12/12/2016

I tried dildos and nothing happens but if i use a broom handle to message my p-spot I get close. Am I doing something wrong?

19 response(s), 38 votes
Bountyhunter1955 68 M
1 question
Score 0.0
When did things change in this lifestyle? - 12/7/2016

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle My entire life, raised by Dom /Domme parents. After a near fatal fall I was forced to step back from the life for 7 years. Upon returning to this lifestyle I was amazed at to fine that subs/slaves no longer relocate themselves as had been the case as long as I can remember. Sub's/slave's relocated themselves as a sign of their wanting to serve a new ...

14 response(s), 51 votes
Sirbob16 69 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
no response - 12/6/2016

Has anyone else experienced chatting and then no response? It seems like accounts are put on here just to use up my 5 allowed conversation. Have even experienced the same with friens, thy say they never received my text. This is all after the "upgraded".

Just womdering

8 response(s), 28 votes
differntstrokes 62 M
10 questions
Score 2.1
Gold no more! - 12/3/2016

Has anyone else suddenly lost their Gold member status recently?

For years I was a Gold member but for some reaason I am now showing as a Standard member with the associated lack of privileges.

I certainly have not cancelled my Gold membership. i sent a message to ALT.com, but never got a reply. Maybe only Gold and silver members get a reply!! I have re-sent my message. ...

10 response(s), 30 votes
kentuckiana 65 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
Dungeon Designs? - 11/29/2016

Having just purchased a home, it's got the requisite, normal & vanilla stuff in the basement-finished & utility rooms; ...but there is a spare, nearly hidden, finished room that I'd like turning into a dungeon-nothing too extreme...just a fun, adult playroom...

Asking my interior decorator to design a comfortable, workable dungeon; ...well it just seems a bit much for a designer used to ...

15 response(s), 29 votes
vicki_new 51 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
Auditions and first meetings? - 11/23/2016

I have met a few doms on this site - not at the same time, but reading the responses to a different question got me thinking... how many is too many? I haven't found the right Dom - either I wasn't what they wanted or our limits didn't match or any number of things. When someone looks at my profile I don't want them to think I am meeting everyone at once. I really meet someone and give it a ...

22 response(s), 56 votes
submanbxl 68 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Is BDSM a shelter for disillusioned romantics? - 11/22/2016

I was listening to Joni Mitchell's song 'Last time I saw Richard' and the line 'And he told me all romantics meet the same fate someday, Cynical and drunk and boring someone in some dark café struck a chord.

It made me wonder whether W/we're all just disillusioned romantics, creating O/our own world.

9 response(s), 21 votes
shoor2pleaseUK 76 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Why have the notes I made against my Hotlist friends been deleted? - 11/19/2016

I have asked Admin but no reply... surprise surprise! Have other members found the same? How can I reinstate them? Thanks

9 response(s), 15 votes
Jeesie26 28 F
1 question
Score 0.0
SeXy girl ready to suCk & fuCk - 11/16/2016

Hi Im a sexy ready to suck and fuck. Looking for someone hot and sexy. . ...i want to sex u plz .I am alaways on here hurry up babe.

18 response(s), 62 votes
daisymaytv 112 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Bit of info - 11/15/2016

Hi everyone

This is being reported on the BBC Tech website (14/11/2016).

http://alt.com



It could explain whats been going on here.



Have fun and play safe

Daisy.

11 response(s), 18 votes
kentuckiana 65 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
Home tab? - 11/11/2016

Has anyone else lost their home tab? I was out of town for a week, and not on the site. When I checked in a week later, not only was my home tab gone, but the IM & broadcast no longer work, although I am able to view cams. Any suggestions on how to get things working again? Is it a problem with alt.com, or something in my personal settings? Is it because I'm no longer a gold member, or something ...

5 response(s), 13 votes
differntstrokes 62 M
10 questions
Score 2.1
Priority - 11/9/2016

Now that Donald Trump is the President-Elect, as a businessman and a man of the people, do you think he will try and get this site running a better operation?

4 response(s), 20 votes
juicyslut2001 66 F
6 questions
Score 0.0
IM back up - 11/1/2016

Suddenly seems to be working for me tonight

14 response(s), 26 votes
89895929 34 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Would this world really got hypnosis? - 10/30/2016

Hypnosis can control our mind? So is it can do something we are not dare to do in reality?

17 response(s), 27 votes
Sirbob16 69 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
What changes?? - 10/27/2016

Since IM has been down and now they are saying "The system is down for upgrade and maintenance. Thanks for your patience while we continue to expand to better serve you!" How many or even your thoughts if they make this like AdultFriendFinder. I for one will not support thayt kind of change. Thanks

13 response(s), 25 votes
seillean 75 M
1 question
Score 0.0
cd looking for interesting people - 10/23/2016

Why no IM?

2 response(s), 16 votes