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Owningyourholes6 43 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Stinky, sweaty, smelly ass to worship - 5/19/2020

Do any women enjoy having their ass sniffed and licked after the have gone days without a shower? I love stinky dirty ass to worship and clean with my tongue. But it freaks most out

31 response(s), 135 votes
TuxFukn 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Intelligent subs - 5/16/2020

If you are Dom/me, how important is an intelligent sub to you? Are you just all about the body, or is their mind important too?

41 response(s), 133 votes
devoted2020 57 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
training kit - 5/13/2020

my question is i been ask to send money to a mistress to buy a training kit has i new to this and still learning this am needing some advice or any ideas would be great

42 response(s), 94 votes
Daddys_paradox 62 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Why? - 5/10/2020

Why do you feel that you need to lie? Why when a submissive/slave asks questions, she's not being submissive or slave like?

31 response(s), 111 votes
PussyPlay4u 67 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Why do we stereotype age? - 5/7/2020

Im 51, He's 63... People automatically assume we're "old" we are anything but "Old" . We have experience, and tons of energy... Enjoy an amazing sex life, together. Neither one of us is fat. However the we're either over looked or too old. Age is merely a number. Why do we as a people, tend to discriminate on age?

49 response(s), 170 votes
_hazine_ 43 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Hello - 5/5/2020

How do I get some of that jazzy bling on my profile? ...

29 response(s), 103 votes
prestonsub16 32 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
stir crazy - 4/22/2020

this is all getting quite nuts. Hope some of you have play partners to share lock down with. How're you spending isolation?

28 response(s), 106 votes
Mark10qxxx 64 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Masterbating - 4/21/2020

How do you like to masterbate?

3 response(s), 19 votes
Mark10qxxx 64 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Masterbating - 4/21/2020

How do you like to masterbate?

2 response(s), 5 votes
gamarriedcouple 71 C
6 questions
Score 0.0
How long is too long? - 4/12/2020

How long is too long to keep a male locked in chastity? <br><br> I am in my seventh year locked in long term chastity. I have had more than one keyholder. It is rare that any of them allows to that orgasm release. Most of the time is is orgasm denial. <br><br> My question is for me. Is seven years too long or not long enough. <br><br> I am thinking about ...

21 response(s), 111 votes
looking4fat 72 T
9 questions
Score 0.0
Is it Spring Fever or COVID ? - 4/10/2020

i don't know why, but for some reason my Desire for Dick seems to have spiked in the last few days. Maybe it is due to the singing birds, blooming flowers, and more hours of daylight here in the Northern Hemisphere. Or maybe it is some form of Sexual Cabin Fever induced by the covid mandated Social Distancing. Or maybe it is a combination of the two. Whatever the reason(s) my compulsion for ...

29 response(s), 91 votes
Jackysub69 54 T
2 questions
Score 0.0
Submission to a black Mistress - 4/5/2020

Black bulls love to have white sissies under their power. Is that the same for black goddesses? Do they prefer to submit white males (or girls)?

14 response(s), 66 votes
albanynycouple51 62 C
19 questions
Score 0.0
hows everyone making it thru the lock down? - 4/4/2020

we enjoying our kinks with hot sex wear theme sex role play with each other.while waiting for it to end.how about you?
...

40 response(s), 120 votes
oldwoodentoy2 68 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Does anyone have a dungeon that they rent out? - 3/30/2020

i am looking for a dungeon to rent in the Hamilton to K-W area. Prefer for an overnight experience. Would like to know details of rental if you have one. Thank you keith

10 response(s), 42 votes
prestonsub16 32 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
points - 3/28/2020

do these question posts produce points?

27 response(s), 110 votes
prestonsub16 32 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
lockdown - 3/28/2020

how's everyone dealing with the lockdown in the UK? I wanted try a little confinement but this isn't what I had in mind!

14 response(s), 59 votes
Smoothboy061 63 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Not sure...chastity ring... - 3/27/2020

I've been told I need to buy a chastity device and i know it will be metal...do I get the chastity where the ring is hinged or a full circle? If a full circle, non-hinged, not sure exactly the size given that I THINK it should be 1.5". Wondering if my balls will fit through as well as cock to get it on correctly. Thoughts and experiences?

3 response(s), 12 votes
bigbossman192 76 M
2 questions
Score 5.2
cock rings - 3/25/2020

What are the effects of a cock ring?

20 response(s), 53 votes
Smoothboy061 63 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Male Webcam Play - 3/25/2020

Are people interested in seeing a play and tease himself on webcam?

10 response(s), 10 votes
cucksme 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Alone time - 3/25/2020

Did anyone else think there would be more people on here since many of us are stuck inside the house? Are people reading books instead? What is going on?

11 response(s), 13 votes
totalsubtouse16 68 M
1 question
Score 0.0
strapons - 3/24/2020

Does anyone like using strapons?

15 response(s), 17 votes
spanky6919 72 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
men in panties - 3/22/2020

why do men allow their wife or girl friend put them in panties

32 response(s), 48 votes
atong4u 74 M
7 questions
Score 0.1
Messages - 3/20/2020

How do you contact someone about this site ? My messages received are now in Spanish .This happened before and then changed back to English. Was talking to a lady now cant reply.

13 response(s), 48 votes
spanky6919 72 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
sissification - 3/18/2020

how many men enjoy their new role of being sissy for their mates enjoyment

23 response(s), 51 votes
spanky6919 72 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
how many men enjoy being dressed in lingerie for their mates enjoymeny - 3/17/2020

wife dresses me as female and has me wearing panties all day every day

19 response(s), 64 votes
Daddy4MaggieMia 66 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How far would you or have you travelled to meet with another alt member? - 3/1/2020

1) Your city area (0 to 50 miles) <br><br> 2) Your state/province. <br><br> 3) The adjoining state/province. <br><br> 4) Country wide <br><br> 5) International

49 response(s), 78 votes
Naturalmtn 37 M
1 question
Score 0.0
New to this, how do i find the right kind dominate woman for me? - 2/29/2020

Ive tried to get ex girlfriends to " take control" in bedroom and of certain things , or just to say the right kind of things during dirty talk or mild role playing. They all would just repeat a word or two that i said and not take it seriously. Only one years ago actually totally took control during sex of me. She 24 an me 18 at time, it was great but i was also to shy to say some of ...

3 response(s), 5 votes
skorpius18 71 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Accessing members' photos - 2/19/2020

Is anybody else unable to access members' photos on their profiles? i have been getting the page, the pinwheel of destiny, but then a blank page. This has been going on for about three days. A friend sent me pics from her album, but all i could access was a white screen. i am a paying gold member, so i'm a bit confused about the whole thing.

21 response(s), 70 votes
albanynycouple51 62 C
19 questions
Score 0.0
have you been to green door swingers sex club in las vegas ? - 2/8/2020

hi we going this thrusday feb 27 and seeking info on the club and its bondage play area hows the club and others who go? thanks for any n all info and input
...

27 response(s), 99 votes
penectme 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Fake automated emails or scam? - 2/1/2020

So before it seemed if gold members sent emails you could read them and at least know if they were real or just another cut and past scam. It also allowed you to know if Alt was legit or just all bots. This also allowed gold members to send some messages to all the other members even if they could not reply. Right now I am seeing several emails getting scrambled and replaced with junk . This is ...

22 response(s), 50 votes