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So, you've read some erotica and now find yourself here, new and ready to prove your complete and perfect submission with the ideal Dom, who will lead you down this perfect path of submission, Sorry I am not Him, but we can still talk, please do write. And please make some friends before charging off with someone who says they are your personal savior.....
So, you've been at internet sites a while now, you have found that some F/folks misrepresent themselves and people get hurt sometimes in BDSM, and you are looking for the Ideal Dom to take you away from the pain and hurt, to protect you, rescue you. Sorry I am not Him, but we can still talk, please do write. Find ones who would help you , listen to words of caution and care, avoid those who yell "go for it!" at every hint of a meeting....
So you've had some experiences R/t and now know that you can be mislead and abused if you are not careful. You recognize names like Jay Wiseman, Race Bannon, and John Warren. But your experiences have lead you to wonder just how submissive you are. You are not in any hurry now to do whatever it takes to "land" the Ideal Dom. You wonder if you would recognize Him from the pretenders. Sorry I am still not Him. I am Me, a Friend, I am a Friend to anyone who would have friends. I am a friend to all those who seek. When I seek one, it is always from a circle of friends. It is My way. But we can still talk, please do write....
So you have had your personal limits manipulated from your control and feel used in the abuse that is painfully common by on-line Doms and wannabes; your ideal submission having such force within you as to bend your own values to acquire it. It will be ok, relax, feel the sensation of pain sweep beneath your skin, feel your head pound in sobs of sorrow for your mistakes, and learn. This is growth, it is not right that some should use you in your zeal for the acquisition of your personal D/s relationship, but they will and do and have. No ideal Dom will save you, sorry. Personal integrity is grown from seeds of dissatisfaction with personal failures. Breath in the fresh air of understanding that you are growing. I am not your Ideal Dom, I am a dominant man who also travels the path of personal growth and understands the pain it delivers to tender hearts, well meaning hearts, but out of balance. And yes, please do write....
So you are an experienced submissive, no longer too damaged by the whims, off hand comments, or weaknesses of others. Secure in your understanding of submission and looking for a Dominant who is not afraid to confess weakness or share both talents and failings. I'm still not your Dom, but please do write, friends are hard to come by and worth the effort to maintain. Finding good connections and preserving worthy relationships is worth the tiny time it takes to write and visit and talk...
I am a puzzle of dominance, spirituality, philosophy, intensity and whit. I am thoughtful and caring, my personal aims relate to providing a safe nurturing place to grow and share joy. Well read, I put a great deal of attention, focus and my deepest thought into scenes or training. I honor the sacred gift of submission and take seriously, my roles and responsibilities. It pleases me most to see my submissive lost in her space and know that I made that possible for her. I expect to share lots of vanilla life and play with the right submissive safely, in the future but look forward to meeting a few people and getting to know them before trotting off with check lists and contracts.
Life takes such circuitous paths don't you agree? It may well be an art to tell when one end is a new beginning. Now especially, My search is for friends.
To all who know Me or have known Me, rest assured I am happy and not gone, just placidly standing in the space between realms, where whisps of dragon smoke lead to the future.
To those who would know Me, feel free to check references, most of the regular visiters who are Real Time, in the New England chat room here (click on chat in the menu at the top of the page and scroll down to "new england") know Me personally and would tell you a thing or two about who I am, Some I have met, some have played. Most I consider friends, some I consider family. Yes it can be crazy in there, yes there are pretenders there too, but if you ask about Me someone there will know Me.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for few things actually, deep abiding friendships based on understanding and trust. Newbie friends are welcome. I'm looking for a way to travel through time. I'd love to change the way I have lived My life. Friends with some experience are welcome.
I'm looking for a cheap source of infinite power. Changing self can be so draining. Experienced friends are welcome.
I'm looking for a really good inexhaustible supply of ice cream. life's richness should be enjoyed. As should be friends, you are welcomed to write and enter a circle of friends.
I am dedicated to being a better person. I thrive with a partner who has intelligence, whit, elegance, simplicity, and compassion. If She is literate, honest, kind hearted, submissive, mores the better. Balanced is good too, I am not into pain for pain sake or punishing unnecessarily. I need open frank and full communication and expect it. It is only fair to speak plainly and not hide important feelings.
While I am not actively seeking anyone, the right submissive will be rewarded with a completely unique and tailored experience or if things go well, a lifelong partner to share the fruits of D/s life, of my life, of our life.
Life's paths are ripe with the fruits of opportunity. Each turn, another tree filled with sweet flavor. What Wwe hope for and what Wwe find oft times are somewhat divergent.
The wise Master takes opportunity for what it is, the only path from the now, into the future.
Love the life you live while crafting the life you'd love.
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