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[B][COLOR orangered]Currently seeking a Rope Bottom for Shibari/Kinbaku. [/COLOR][/B] Interested in Japanese Rope Bondage? I am learning to tie and need a partner :)
I'm looking for a RT In-Person relationship.
If you are looking for only cyber or chat, keep looking; that's not me. If you are long distance, and by that I mean it's not realistic to spend time together on a frequent basis, then that's not what I'm looking for either. I don't have a problem chatting or messaging, it's that it needs to lead to a real in-person relationship. I'm the kind of person that would rather talk in person than talk on the phone. Generally, I have an easy-going kick back personality. In the bedroom, I like to be creative and find the dominant role works best for me. Exactly what that means depends on the relationship. It's something I'd welcome talking about. If you've seen my profile out here before, I spent a little time exploring my sub side, but found it didn't work for me. I did gain some insight from it though. If you are a pain sub or into heavy physical abuse, I'm not your guy. However most fetishes ok as I'm open to all kinds of ideas; so let's talk about what works for both of us! Outside of that, see some of my ideal person stuff below. Plain vanilla in public as long as you are ok with PDAs when u might not expect it. Hey.. I'm Romantic! I'll open the doors for you, take your hand in mine, put my arms around you to keep you warm in the night chill... but might also catch your eyes with a wink of mine when one hand slides down for a quick squeeze or slap on the ass or I nibble your ear and whisper something that might cause you to blush. Sometimes I'm just playful. I have a quick wit, with a slightly twisted sense of humor.
The important thing is to be open and honest and able to talk about roles, needs and desires and be willing to explore them all. I'm caring, loving, devoted, and have a high sex drive. I find pleasing my partner sexually is a top priority, and gives me great pleasure.. so will keep working all night, if your up for it.
I never expected to be out here again, but life has it's twists, and I find myself widowed and without the partner that i had expected to be my love to grow old with. She was a sensual and submissive person.. that worked well in the past. I've learned it's ok to want that again in the future.
Looking now for a new relationship that can start off as whatever might be comfortable, but if things work out will develop into a LTR. Looking only for a LTR from the start puts a lot of pressure on a relationship. I prefer to let things develop more naturally, as all the aspects needed to maintain a LTR are not immediately obvious. I need to have things work outside as well as at play.
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My Ideal Person:
I like to cuddle, and love skin-to-skin time wrapped around my partner. or even just curled up on the couch with my partner's head on my lap, or with mine on hers from time to time. Hope you are the same. especially after sex, or a hot bath or shower. Prefer someone who is comfortable with who they are, and are not self-conscious about their body. Must be open to talking about needs and preferences, both in the bedroom and everywhere else. I hate being left guessing what someone wants or likes/dislikes. Must be D/D STD free. I am clean and expect my partner to be also. No Games, No Drama. Real and In Person.
I spent the last couple of years loyally taking care of my partner before she passed on. It's the kind of person I am. I'm looking for the same kind of loyalty and kindness mixed with some excitement, creativity, spontaneity, and playfulness, especially about sex, but also about life in general.
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